These incidents are incidents that actually happened, and at the same time, really turned me on.  

I do not understand myself why these types of incidents turns me on, but after the each incidents, I wanted to have sex with my wife so bad.

1.   My wife & I were sitting in a restaurant.  After a while, my wife told me that an employee at the restaurant was keep on smiling at her.  I tried to figure out why.  Then, I noticed that from where he was standing, he could see my wife's panty under her skirt.  I knew he couldn't take his eyes off from my wife's legs under skirt.  That time I couldn't tell my wife why he was keep looking at her.  I wasn't happy that another guy was looking my wife's panty under her skirt, but it did turned me on.

2.   My wife & I went to a firework one time.  It was really crowded.  Then I noticed someone was shooting laser beam on her.  The laser beam was going all over her body.  Her breast area, vagina area, and legs.  She was not noticing anything, but seeing another man carassing my wife's entire body with laser beam turned me on, I was mad and looking for him, then he stopped.  Knowing another man finding my wife sexy and wants to carass her body turned me on later.

3.  When we went to a vacation, our sink faucet was not working at the hotel room.  I called a plumber from the hotel.  I was in the bathroom sitting on a toilet with door closed when he arrived.  My wife was wearing one-piece skirt pajama.  I guess the plumbing guy did not know I was inside the bathroom and started to make sexyl comments to my wife.  Listening to a guy making sexy comments to my wife right next me just away from a door distance turned me on.  When my wife did not feel comfortable and started talking to me in the bathroom, he stopped, fixed the faucet, then left.  To be honest, I wanted to see the guy have sex with my wife just in door distance.  I wanted to record my wife's unconsensual sex with the guy and masturbate.

4.  One of my friend asked me if he could take my as his girlfriend to his company party, just for one evening.  I asked my wife if she would go.  She said whatever I want.  I really couldn't let him, knowing he did have sex with several girls whil he was in college.  Thinking about him and my wife in a same car, dancing, etc., turned me on though.