As I was browsing through some pics the other day and replying to some conversations, I realized how important fantasy is in the overall experience here. I'm sure most of the female profiles I interact with real life, men. It's a porno site, let's be realistic here. I accept this, but also indulge in the fantasy that not only am I speaking with women, but knockout beautiful women, and they are interested in my content. Sure, some have to be women, and when it comes down to it beauty is subjective. I'm not attracted to lots of textbook beautiful women, and I'm sure some of the women I go after have my friends shaking their head. So, again, the fantasy is more important than reality when I'm in this space. Without the fantasy I wouldn't have nearly as much fun as I do.

I'm a straight guy. I'm not turned on by the male figure at all. Nothing that I'm bragging about, just the way it is. Believe me, my sex life would be all kinds of awesome if I could stop ruling out half the population, half the generally hornier population at that. And yes, I've been an open minded college guy on a couple occasions, alas it's simply not for me. That said, I try to respond and be polite to all comments I get. I love the comments, even from the dudes. It's the fantasy of being a turn on to someone, anyone, that keeps me posting.

I came to the realization that I often don't put in the effort to properly respond to the, um, more graphic comments from men. For seriously, what do I really care what a guy wants to do to me? I try for a second or two then move on. I'm going to be much more active in indulging your fantasy from here on out. Does it matter if someone questions my sexuality in an anonymous online setting? Not really, and by leaving without responding I'm ruining the fantasy for someone else.

I'm sure it's going to take some effort, especially in the beginning, and I might get uncomfortable for a while at first, but it's going to be worth it to help continue the fantasy for someone else, who after all has taken the time to leave a comment. Maybe I'm ruining the fantasy at some level by this long winded explanation that I'm only responding to the fantasy, but who actually reads these blogs anyway? ;)