My god do I love to get spanked. Spanking is an art form that truly needs careful refinement and mastery on one's part. Too many people just slap an ass until its blistering red and think that's it. That's like saying the art of sex is just about fucking; well, yes it is, but we know there is so much more to it that makes it a truly mind-blowing experience.

The same with spanking. It shouldn't be about pain. If you're spanking just to hurt someone than you're just doing it to be a sadist (and yes, perhaps that's your kink, but it's still not spanking in the purest form). Spanking is about bringing someone to the absolute edge of erotic intensity and then holding them there for as long as possible under your control.

First you need a brief warm-up time, where each spank builds slightly more than the last. This allows the ass muscles to properly adjust to the impacts and gives the body time to redirect the blood flow for protection; which of course gives that beautiful glowing crimson bottom.

Then each sting of the hand or paddle should elicit a strong reaction; a hard intake of breath and rigid clenching of the body, but it shouldn't make the person scream out in pain or cry hysterically (again that's sadism not spanking). The greatest ideal is to hold that person in a place of sexual ecstasy where they feel that they could not possibly handle even one more single spank and yet they are able to do just that very thing again and again. They become lost in the sensation, totally oblivious to time and space; all that exists is that intense feeling that they can not control as it consumes their total being.

When you are finally done they should be in such a state that at first they do not even register that it's over; it should take them a few moments to come back to reality. The final product should be a glowing evenly-distributed crimson color across the entire ass, yet with no markings, welts or lesions. At this point, a single slap of the hand should hold a white silhouette of the strike very briefly before the bottom returns to crimson.

If you really know your stuff and have the skills needed you can bring a woman to orgasm by spanking alone. I'm not saying it's easy but I'm saying it's possible. I would say that I myself average an orgasm in about one of every four spanking sessions (mood is also critical of course; get us when we are super horny and super wet).

There are a lot of gifted spankers online with videos. My personal favorite is Chelsea Pfeiffer. Watch how she skillfully builds the spanking up, how the subject's ass maintains the proper color and texture, and how the facial expressions of most of her girls is perfect. Also notice how she easily runs twenty to thirty minute sessions on these girls; all of them. I have counted out many such sessions; I found that she typically spanks between two to three thousand times! Just think about that, isn't that incredible.

And yes, this is exactly what my darling Claire does to me. She spanks me in sexual foreplay obviously, but also when I’m often being a brat I literally force her hand to put me back in line. And almost every morning I religiously get a quick fifteen minute spanking as a wake-up in lieu of an alarm clock. But the best spankings come now that Claire has discovered their cathartic nature. If she is having a bad day or under a lot of stress, out of nowhere and without a word she will take me over her knee and release all her tension onto my bottom. She always feels better after, and gives me a kiss and thanks me. And I absolutely adore her for it.

Please dream of me,

Stacy