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(This was also a blog entry I originally wrote as Boregard80).
In this blog entry, I want to discuss
the question of why it is important to punish girls (and women) when they are caught
masturbating, without being ordered to do so by men. (And why well-educated
girls wouldn't masturbate, or when they do, will confess their misdeed to
receive the punishment they deserve).
The focal point is that masturbation undermines the whole system of
girls and women not having any sexual autonomy, and therefore no right to
sexual pleasure. The right of experiencing sexual pleasure might occasionally
be granted by men, but it is of course not a right a girl or a woman is granted
by her own - esp. not just by being a female! So, a girl or woman that
masturbates evades the legitimate control of men, and violates ideologically
central tenets of a well-ordered society. Therefore, she has to be punished
very, very hard, as this should also deflect her from trying to do it again.
Further, girls are told early that this sweet little spot they have
between their legs is not for pleasure, but for inflicting pain when they
misbehave. When a girl masturbates, she could be lead to the false belief that
her clitoris is for pleasure after all. It is important to avoid any such
belief forming in young girls.
As mentioned in an early blog post, there can't be a strict age
restriction for punishment for this indecent behaviour. Imagine how
contradictory education would be if girls are allowed to masturbate at one
point in time (or are at least not punished for doing so), and suddenly are no
longer allowed to do so (and are punished harshly) at another, quite
arbitrarily defined point in time!
Girls that are learning fast and are well-behaving will seldom
masturbate more than once. And they have internalized correctly that if they
do, they have to report it, and have to be punished for it. Of course, punishment
is always heavier if a girl does not confess it herself, but is caught doing
it.
This also makes it important to reward girls that denunciate other girls
they have seen masturbating. In fact, one can allow such exemplary girls to do
what the other girls weren't allowed to do. This kind of "peer control"
is very valuable in boarding schools - or even in families with more than one daughter!
Concerning the kind of punishment that has to be
applied to girls and women that have been caught masturbating: I will discuss
this topic in the next blog post.
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