She said. I know I wanted you to go with him, but you could have said no! the way you were with him makes me think I don't know who my husband really is. You dress in lingerie you let other men fuck me and then I see exactly who you are with him! I couldn't stop you two! then I just couldn't watch you doing that. I need some space. you need to figure out yourself too. I need my husband as a man not a transvestite cocksucker. 

So there's her answer.  I changed my password so she can't access this account. All this because I was going with what she wanted. I need to get laid. Not with her!