Sitting at home using my e-stem now for two hours while imagining being bound and having a dom do this to me.  I have come now twice and am trying for a third time.  I imagine the dom saying I am not allowed to come yet and i will be punished if I do...  This is one side of many that I have.

 

Another is I like to be the dom.  Especially with women.  I like to play the pleasure role as mush as the pain role.