Why distance?

(This is a part of a series on my experience working on my cumshot distance and volume. See main post here)

I realized one day that I was a dribbler.

My SO isn’t really into cumplay, so it’s never been an issue, but when I realized I couldn’t shoot my load any real distance, I was disappointed.

It’s not really a big deal, but I started wondering whether this wasn’t something I could work on. The idea of jizzing far makes me feel virile and strong. It makes things more visceral. And I know some women like to feel that they are being pumped hard with cum during sex. Distance means power, so by working on distance, you also get harder pumping as a bonus.

Plus, more distance just opens more opportunities for fun things. You like to cum on hair, in mouths or all over the torso? All easier when you have some distance. It also makes it much easier to cover someone in surprise cumshots. 

(Just make sure it’s someone that doesn’t mind. Consent could be the difference between a hilarious practical joke and prison time)

The research

This article was my starting point, and has a lot of great information, I recommend that you read it in full: http://www.dnacannon.com/firepower-ejaculation-force.html

You’ll notice that it recommend Kegels, and a very intense regiment for them.

Other research agrees on the Kegels, but disagrees how to do them. The general advice is to start by working on isolating the muscles, then doing 3 sets of 10 flexes for 10 seconds each time. I’ve used that method and found it very effective so far.

But what the article I link doesn’t mention, and is only mentioned sporadically is the important of doing reverse Kegels as well as regular ones. Do both!

I’m not going to teach you how to do them here. There’s a large number of articles, youtube videos and pdf guides that have been created that explain both types of kegels much better than I ever could. But they are the secret to shooting far.

Scientific testing

Before I started to do Kegels I decide to set a baseline of how far I could cum, so I could track my results. The results were about 0 distance. But I find it important to have a test setup. The process is a lot more fun if you’re seeing gradual results all the time. And there’s multiple ways to do this.

What I currently do is this: I stand at the side of my bathtub and see how high up the opposite wall I can shoot my load. (also has the advantage of being easy to clean up) Now that I have a little firepower already, this is a pretty decent test, and I imagine my naughty friend Leidy is standing on the other side. So when I see how high up the wall I came, I can easily translate it to where on her body I would have hit her. (last time was stomach and crotch, but she’s only 5’3’’ and I’m over 6’, so the results are slightly skewed) As I get better at this, I’ll have to stand further and further away.

Of course if you have a partner that’s willing to be a human target, that only makes the testing more fun.

But even if you don’t, there’s all kinds of ways to make it fun

My technique

After some time of doing Kegels I was frustrated that nothing much had changed yet. So I started experimenting with technique. I still feel like I a lot of development to do there, but I figured I’d share what I’ve come up with so far.

There are a number of timings here that you need to experiment with, and see how far you can take each one. Going further over the Point of no Return seems to give better results, but if you go too far you may cum before you have a chance to Kegel.

How long you hold the Kegel seems to determine how hard it shoots after.

Starting to jerk off too early after the Kegel shortens how long you can hold it (I can’t hold it for a second if the stimulation doesn’t stop), but doing it too late hurts how far you shoot.

It’s not as complex as it seems though. It’s just hard to explain.

Reverse Kegels seem to strengthen the muscles that shoot your cum out after you release the Kegel. It is my feeling that the stronger this muscle is, the longer you shoot, but I have no science behind me there.

Next steps

Now, the technique I described has some downsides, which I’m working on getting around.

It’s fragile. I have no distance during a handjob, or where the stimulation doesn’t stop when I do the Kegel. Maybe I just need to strengthen the muscles even more, to the point where they can withstand anything, but there may be a more robust version of the technique as well.

It only works for the first bit of cum. So far, I’ve managed to shoot two “ropes” of cum any real distance and the rest still dribbles. Again, this may be an issue of strength (this time the reverse-kegels), but it’s also possible that I need to learn how to flex the muscles regularly while I cum, so I can shoot everything the same distance.

What results I’ve gotten are pretty consistent if I apply the technique. I’m still mastering the timing and seeing where to tweak it for best results though. If someone has any tips, tricks or insights, please please send me a PM or tell us all in the comments.

Conclusion (and TLDR)

Increasing your distance is simple, albeit takes a bit of work and experimentation.

Do kegels and reverse kegels, learn the technique and you’ll be a cumshot machine!