Normally I do not use blogs or pretty much any public venue forum to spout my displeasure or complaints about something.  Especially that which is centered upon porn, the lifestyle of BD/sm or the like and mainly because I do not wish to appear as some nampy pampy lil cry baby.

In this case tho, I give could not give any more fucks than zero.

I am a Daddy Dom by nature and of some experience beyond just playing the role as some people do.  Those types would be the ones that simply think it is kinky to spank their girl on the ass and tell her to call him daddy every now and then.  No in this case, a Daddy Dom is a care giver type of a dom.  They tend to be gentle yet strict and firm in their ministrations and this does not typically involve the concept of incest although for some that can be a factor of the dynamic.  That is a 30 thousand foot view at best or summed up in rather vague terms.  Like myself, they can have a touch of other forms of BD/sm including the use of ropes and other restraints or even delving into the sadist side of things.  The reason I mention this is because like anything in this world, a Daddy will not fit any one particular mold no matter who is stating what they are and their limited opinion.  The fact remains the foundation is what matters for this particular type of dom more than the rest in my opinion and the reason being that the key difference is affection… true caring affection in the gentle sense.

So that all said and done I wont call the person out and doesn’t matter anyway as I have since blocked their ignorant ass as it is but this is to anybody in the future that comes my way and says something akin to ‘You're not a real Daddy Dom’  In my humble opinion the supposed Daddy doms I have come across on this site are a pathetic approximation of the true term thus giving the real Daddy doms such as myself a bad rap.  And further more do not expect me to fit the mold of whatever preconceived notions or definitions of a Daddy you might have.  I make my own mold and then for good measure I break it.