After plenty of observation, i have noticed that most guys are just too rough with themselves to be fully enjoying themselves fully. Something I like to do is to provide a smooth loving handjob by stroking and touching a penis the way I believe it is ment to be touched. The way it deserves to be touched. What is required is patience, empathy, imagination, time, lube... oh and saliva..

Seems like I spend at least a good five minutes of time just petting and stroking on and over your pants. Your shorts or briefs... just encouraging and marveling at all the growing that is happening under there! But when it's time for him to come out, those pants come off -all-the-way off. Pulled off your ankles and laying on my floor by my bed. Next to my shirt. And my bra.

Touch is a basic human need... we need touch from each other. Massage. We all need to have our aches, our tensions, our bodies massaged. I roll your genitals up in my hands. Then down. I roll them around over and over in my hand while the other hand massages high on your legs on either side, and underneith. All around your groin, just relaxing your muscles and encouraging bloodflow. Also, I should note, loosening all of those pathways so important to the male anatomy, such as your seminal vesicles, the prostate, and the glans, or the head of the penis. I might gently pull the genitals out from the body, just ever so softly but surely, and feel how everything becomes freed... and then let them softly contract back upward toward your body. 

Lube. Lube is essential, if this is to be done properly. I recommend a long-wetted type such as 'Wet' or some other silicone based kind. Many of the water based kinds just dry and get sticky and keep requiring re-application. Forget flavors. Forget 'icy-hot' stimulating bullshit. Just hands. Just my tongue. Saliva. This I apply under your nuts. Then I lick up one side of the shaft. Then down the other. Then up underneith, balls to tip. I lick around the ridge of the glans.

Oh, did I say 'handjob'? I meant blowjob...

 By placing my tongue just forward over my bottom teeth and letting it become a flat cradle in my mouth, my upper lip drawn in and over my top teeth, I kiss the tip of the penis. But this kiss goes from just the tip, in one assured move, down over the tip.
And you just sit, and notice how my kiss slides deep and smoothly all-the-way. And your penis is gone. 

Only to re-emerge, glistening and wet.

aaaaaaaaan-he's gone again.

And re-emerges.

There is a critical and perfect balance that can be learned, between suction and movement, which maintains a slippery wetness and I am told a constant slippery tightness that can approximate or even exceed that of a vagina. My mouth has become a slippery tight vagina. I look up into your eyes. This happens slow. The motion is constant, never ceasing, but going so slow some times, then faster, then slow again when I notice your energies. 

You are fully present in this beautiful moment.

A penis can only grow so tight. So erect. So fully engorged before...

 ...it simply ejaculates.

And I swallow.