I realized recently that I've experienced quite a lot of fun/interesting times during my years in the swinger lifestyle. I also enjoy writing and reading erotica, but always get a little hung up when things get too fanciful or unreal - real life excapades are way more fun to discuss. In this light, my goal with this blog is to share highlights and snippets of various real-life experience I have had. If any third-party stories creep in (like things I've heard from others, or knew happened but didn't directly experience), I'll certainly call those out. Otherwise everything you'll read here will be true with minor details like names and locations left out or changed to keep things anonymous. My goal is to post weekly every Friday, but we'll see how it progresses. 

 

As some background: I'm currently in my mid 40s, a tall skinny white male. I'm generally a shy quiet guy and don't have a huge dick, so sometimes Vanilla (non-lifestyle) people can't comprehend how I've had success with swinger women. But that's definitely an outsider view that I'd like to correct through this blog. It's really more about a community of like-minded people than porn-style orgies day and night. I learned a lot about the LS reading things online a decade+ ago when venturing into things with my ex wife. We had some fun, but that relationship was not ideal for reasons outside of this (BTW, swinging will never save a marriage!). When I was single, I explored the LS more fully as a single guy, which was very enlightening. I am now in a committed relationship with a bisexual woman whom I adore. She too was in the LS before we met, and we've been invovled in it from early on together. We are just normal people with real jobs, kids (part time), and outside interests -- we just like to fuck other people too ;-)

 

So I truly hope people will enjoy my posts. I already have several things outlined and look forward to sharing my experiences! 

 

UPDATE Sep 9 2016 -- trying to add images to each post. They'll be heavily edited/cropped to protect identities, but should give you an idea of the folks I'm writing about