So, I've been thinking. Dangerous I know. 

I get a LOT of questions here about my sexual fantasies and I always try to answer honestly. What some of the guys who ask (and it's almost always guys) don't seem to get is why I don't make all my fantasies into realities.

Let me try to explain. Some fantasies are wodnerfully erotic in my mind, but they wouldn't work for me in reality. I may fantasize about group sex, gangbangs or orgies, but it doesn't mean I'll be trying them in real life. Some guys just won't accept that I can find it hot in my head but know that it would not be much fun in reality.

WHY? They ask. WHY DON'T YOU TRY IT?  CHICKS CAN GET IT IF THEY WANT IT.

Here's why. In my head, the orgy is totally under my control. The people are as attractive or unattractive as I want them to be. They do things that I want... or my imagination lets them do things I don't want within the confines of my story... but I actually DO want in my fantasy.

In reality, an orgy or gangbang takes a lot of setting up. Removing the spontaneity would spoil the fun. Plus, I'm pretty damn choosey, so it would be impossible to get the scene, characters and action just right. Reality has no director, my imagination is mine.

For guys who still don't get it: sometimes you fantasize about being an action hero, right? Fighting the bad guys, risking your life. Most guys have fantasies like that: James Bond, Batman, the Punisher. How many of you actually fulfil them? You don't. Because it's fun in your mind, not reality.  In your mind, you always win. 

The same is true about my sexual fantasies. I know the ones that work in my head and the ones that I want to try in real life.

This has been a public service announcement! Happy fantasizing! :D