I can pretty much tell with certainty that someone failed to actually read my profile when they open a conversation without any reference to their smoking.

You might think that because their profile (yes .. I DO read them) mentions "no limits" or any number of disgusting practices which would turn the stomach of most people, they would be happy to smoke for me. But no, I have learned the hard way that "no limits" does not include placing a cigarette in their lips for many people. Also, just how unimaginative many so-called "no limits" people are. 

So now the burden of asking the question falls on me. "So do you smoke?"

- If they are a non-smoker, the reaction is anywhere from incredulity to anger. "You WANT me to SMOKE!!??". The simple answer is "No. I don't". I am as aware of the health risks as you are. There are those who are into forcing people to smoke. I am not one of them. "I WANT YOU TO WANT to smoke". That is to say, I want you to be an adult who has made a conscious choice to smoke, or to continue to smoke, and who takes pleasure from the act of smoking and will enjoy the knowledge that your doing it will turn me on. So if you are not a smoker, move on. I am sure you are an interesting person, who has many worthwhile qualities but really .. I am here to indulge one fetish that is at the root of all my other ones. If you do not satisfy that one then it is not going to work with you, regardless of how many other fetishes we might share.

 - Now if they are a smoker you might expect a more positive response. However for many smokers their smoking is a private pleasure or vice. Perhaps they are inwardly guilty about it. They have promised their partner they will quit for example. Many just cannot grasp that it can be a fetish. They can react from anything to surprise to disgust. I don't expect them to share the fetish just to understand that I have it and to be willing to indulge. I am looking for people who are happy to talk about their smoking with me, and to do it for me. 

Hence the information I am seeking is something that is rarely mentioned in profiles. Since I have experienced issues with trying to find it out, mostly I don't bother these days. So if you wonder why I am ignoring you when you feel we should be talking .. that is probably why. So if you smoke .. tell me .. I would probably love to chat with you . and very probably masturbate :)