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Blog #8: A Popular Fantasy That Can Never Come True
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This blog may be kinda a little buzzkill for certain role play people. Sorry.
So I was recently talking with someone who wanted to push my limits and give me something I've never tried. He couldn't provide 100 clean guys to fuck or let me relive certain moments of my past. But there was one fairly dark fantasy I shared with him that he wanted to give me. The fantasy of rape.
This is a pretty common turn on for a lot of people I think. It's dark and morbid but that kinda adds to the thrill. The idea of someone taking you against your will, having their way with you in every way they possibly want to and leaving you with nothing more than some drying cum stains to remember them by can really be a turn on. Like a big one.
There's just one problem. It's impossible. The important word to pay attention to is will. If I want something then it's my will. This fantasy requires your will be removed but that's not some switch you can flip in your head.
But say it was. Say you could just stop wanting it like that. After you removed it somehow which is basically impossible by itself, it wouldn't be your fantasy anymore at that point. It would just be a crime.
So what's the solution? Well there isn't one sadly. If you rape someone you broke the law and probably belong in jail. If you run through a fantasy rape with someone, well that's just consentual sex and nothing more than role play. Either way, it's a fantasy absolutely impossible to have fulfilled.
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Posted on : Jan 12, 2016
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Commented on Sep 9, 2016
You could do it with hypnosis. You give your consent, then get hypnotized into not wanting to consent. You've still already pre-consented to the whole thing, but during the scene, you legitimately don't want it.
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Commented on Feb 6, 2016
I could always 'black bag' you, bind your hands behind you and violate you for as long as I wanted, not quite the same, but it would leave you wondering who had fucked you, every time you walked down the street, you would be wondering if I was one of the people giving you the once over.
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Commented on Jan 15, 2016
Very interesting thoughts, clear and straightforward. And I agree completely. Actual rape is not an act of sex, it's an act of violence. Violence and power. Rapists deserve a dose of their own medicine, a hundredfold. Failing that, at least they should be placed in prison.
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Commented on Jan 13, 2016
You're exactly right. I guess where it comes into play is if you have mixed feelings about it. In other words, if a small part of you wants it, but you mostly don't... Is it then some of both? Or does wanting it, even a tiny bit, make it consensual? idk...
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Commented on Jan 12, 2016
Have you ever played on Second Life? Some good fantasies on there!
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