Dear Prudence,

My husband Tom served a prison sentence for a white collar crime and I agreed to pose for some nude photographs for him to take inside with him for his masturbation. The pictures weren't really pornographic by today's standards but I shaved my bush for them and I showed everything in a way I had never previously dreamed I would do for anyone. I assumed he would keep them private but he shared a cell with a black man called Mike. I later learned that he first of all allowed Mike to look at my photographs while Mike masturbated and then indulged in mutual masturbation and more with him. Before long, my husband had become Mike's bitch, as such men are called in prison when they submit to anal penetration. I knew nothing of all this when Tom came home but I began to notice odd absences on his part. He would be working late or have an evening appointment or need to run an errand on a weekend afternoon. These things hadn't happened before. My first thought was that he had a girlfriend. On one Sunday when he went out after some vague excuse, I followed him. He drove to a nearby lake, parked his car and set off along the shore. There was no one else around. I stayed in the trees and followed him. When I caught up with him, he was locked in a passionate kiss with a big, muscular Black who turned out to be Mike, the cellmate. At this point, they were clothed but these were quickly shed and there was some more stand up necking and cuddling but this time in the nude. I was watching safely through some bushes and there was little chance I would be discovered. I could hardly believe my eyes as Mike led my husband to a nearby picnic table, bent him over it face down and rubbed something from a tube into his butt crack. Then he buggered him. They were in the middle of this when I jumped out and screamed at them. There was instant chaos. I was crying and Tom was crying and I was trying to hit Tom. Mike was pulling me away and I yelled at him to stay out of it. God knows what I looked like fighting with two naked men in public, both with huge erections. After a bit we all calmed down and Tom admitted what was obvious, that he and Mike had been lovers since prison although, curiously, both of them denied being gay. We all three went back to our house to talk it over and Tom said he intended to go on seeing Mike saying it was purely for man sex and that it did not affect his love or his desire for me. It's true that we resumed our active sex life when he came back from prison and he always treated me lovingly. My quandary now is whether to accept his continuing to have sex with Mike in the rôle of Mike's « woman » and where I would fit in. Mike is a handsome guy and he looks terrific in the nude (it's true : they are « bigger ») and I'm coming round to the idea of an MMF threesome. What should I do?

Your sincerely, Lynn

Dear Lynn,

Now that your husband has discovered the pleasures of man penis inside him, it's unlikely he'll give it up. What you should do is say okay – and take charge. I think you'll find that neither your husband nor his black stud will object to some female supervision, especially if they claim they are not basically gay. Make Mike your second-in-command with Tom as the obedient servant to you both. It's significant that Tom has chosen to be submissive to a dominant black guy. Racial guilt makes a lot of white men and women feel the need to make atonement sexually to the powerfully transcendant black male. I suspect you feel a bit that way yourself and that's ok !

Yours, Prue