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It seems to go under-awknowledged in our coulture that, in their early teens & 20s, young women are at LEAST as horny as their male counterparts. There is still a stigma of one type or other surrounding female sexuality - read as 'promiscuity' vs young men. Men get away with 'boys will be boys' long after they are boys. Women tend to get labeled 'whores' or 'bitches' but I digress...
A young person whom I spoke with (not actually pictured below) told me about how she couldn't ever get what she wanted out of a sexual relationship. She said that a lot of guys were interested in her, sure, but very few if given the chance could actually *satisfy* her. Basically, she went on to describe her tendancey to 'wear out' the young men she slept with. Often, she would have sex two or three times a day at the start - which guys love - but when her desire doesn't abate after 3 or 4 weeks, the men tend to back off.
Is this poor girl really 'hornier' than the average guy? I actually don't think so. Part of the problem is physiological, plain and simple. For a guy, sexual intercourse is an active force of will, and involves his body 'producing' and 'performing'. A woman's body is physiologically capable of having a comparitavely inordinate amount of sex. Basically, a 20 year old woman with a bottle of lube can physically wear-out any man. If not in a single night, give her 5, 6, 7 weeks... or six months of hard-sex 2 or 3 times a day. (Believe me, I've seen it in my own personal experience.)
My advice to her? Masturbation, more forplay with your men, and *train them* to perform oral sex on you.
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