Dear young man who is a virgin, 

I'm writing to you tonight because I actually see quite a few younger men in my practice who are virgins. Counter to the popular assumption that 20-somethings are all over-sexed fuck-a-holics, the truth is that something like half of college age men are, in fact, virgins. And a slightly larger numbe of young women.

I get a lot of questions about 'what is normal?' or 'when should I start?' or 'how do I get a girlfriend?' if you can believe that.  Well, normal is not a very good term, because it is truly a sliding scale, mostly determined by your immediate culture. Tradition, religion, upbringing, etc. all weigh in. 

Let me, perhaps, just help to put things into perspective here.

You, at this very moment, have a penis between your legs and presumably a pair of nuts that - all day now - have been producing sperm and are prepared to whip it up into enough semen to impregnate 100 women in a single go. (But a single drop of semen is more than enough to impregnate a woman, and the average ejaculation is on the order of a teaspoon or more, that is to say, hundreds of times that. )

Add to that the fact that (as I'm sure you've noticed) males become horny at puberty, and only become HORNIER into their twenties... how often do you find yourself thinking erotic thoughts?

Finally, and I would like to be perfectly honest and even a little clinical here, you are surrounded in life by many options and opportunities. Women. Your age and older. Women who are just as horny, or possibly hornier than you are. For as much as your hormone driven mind and body wants to simply thrust and pump and ejaculate...

"So fucking hard It makes me almost want to cry" as one 18 yo patient suscinctly put it...

There are women who have an accute reciprocal desire: to be penetrated. To be ridden. To be *taken*

"I just want to open my legs and get fucking screwed!" one sophomore coed admitted...

The complete and honest truth is this: In your life, you are going to SCREW. You are going to FUCK-LIKE-THERES-NO-TOMORROW...   You are absolutely going to find yourself - maybe even in the near future - just pumping balls-deep into a woman and experiencing that ephemeral yet physical pleasure that keeps men and women wrapped and keeps the species going...

You, my young virgin friend, are sometime soon going to discover what it is to 'fuck-your-brains-out right up a tight slippery cunt.