When I got with my husband (married now nearly 7 years) I had only been with 2 others... he 8. I would tease that I wanted to have the same number as he. I travel for work often so eventually it opened the door for a bit of play. Husband was not overly happy but he accepted this enough and we managed to still maintain a very good relationship. 

Once I got to my #8 I would tease hubby I wanted to have more than him... my #9 I chose as his friend. Over this period of time I kind of started liking the way that my hubby would react to my play... his embarrassment was cute in some way. So, my #9 I wanted it to sting a bit more than usual. So, I chose his friend. I also, let his friend have my butt (as that was a big deal to hubby no one else played there). His friend took pictures and decided to share with others at my hubby's weekly poker game. Hubby handled it fairly well but his friends to this day still love to bust on him.

Over the years, I have now been with 3 of his friends and I would say about 30 others.

Most of my play takes place whie I am on the road. My coworkers all know of my lifestyle, many of which I have been with in one way or another at one time or another. I love when my hubby flies out to meet me sometimes and he is forced to be in an enviroment where everyne knows of my actions and at times forced to spend social time with a man I might recently been with. He handles himself well, but I know it is not easy for him. By the end of the night he usually is calm and settled, but I know it is a struggle for him... it is cute though.

I would like for my hubby to have to face this more at home though. But, it has been a struggle that he would like for me to keep my actions more out of hometown and away from his work...etc. I kind of would like to see him to have to face it here.

He would prefer I would not play at all. But I kind of like it... the variety, excitement and how I know it makes him feel... like I said before... it is kind of cute ;)