Imagefap is a great masturbation aide. We all of us, whatever our sexuality, come to Imagefap because it enables, inspires and enhances our natural need to masturbate. I wank. I'm a wanker. I'm one of those. The simple act of saying or writing the word thrills me with the weight of its meaning. Yet, I can't just come out and say identifiably that masturbating is immensely important to me. It's probably easier to admit to being gay nowadays than to proclaim being a wanker. If anything's locked in the closet, it's masturbation. We're taught all our lives that wanking is shameful, to be spoken about only in private and mocked publicly. Wanker is a word used derisively although we are all wankers. Perhaps we need something like Masturbators Anonymous where people of both sexes can talk freely and proudly about their masturbation without being judged. Masturbating is what I do. It's what I've always done since I was a child discovering the pleasure of touching himself at the age of around seven. It's the way I am. It's something I did before the realm of sex with other people opened up to me and it is something I still do now that that realm is closed off again. It's a pleasure, sometimes incredibly intense and always satisfying, that never dims. Masturbators are a category made up of the entire population of the world, yet they are treated as if they were isolated and rather bizarre inadequates doing something dirty because they do what they do mostly alone. In fact, masturbation whether alone or with others is a sexual practice which is as natural, healthy, legitimate and desirable as conventional intercourse. I've masturbated every day of my life, sometimes several times, whether I've been in relationships or not. I've masturbated at the office (even in my office with my secretary next door), in cars (stationary and while driving), outdoors, at the beach, in bed, on the floor, in front of my computer, in public toilets. I've masturbated in front of people and I've been caught unexpectedly while masturbating. I've been thrilled by my masturbation and embarrassed by it. I've masturbated when I didn't particularly have the urge but simply had the opportunity to do it. Never let the chance go by. When I haven't been free to do it, I've thought about when my next wank would be and what it would be about. Sometimes, I've wanked for women, sometimes for men, sometimes for young bodies and sometimes for old. Sometimes, my fantasies have been illicit. I see beauty in both male and female masturbation, the elegance of female self-touching and the muscularity of male wanking. For all that, I have never been able to shake off the feeling that my masturbation is essentially shameful however fiercely I know in myself that it is not. The hypocritical disdain expressed towards wankers is too powerful to be confronted head on which is why I write this only anonymously.I wank. I'm a wanker and if some people want to think that makes makes me pathetic and inadequate, too bad. They can make me hide it but they can't stop me loving it and hoping that attitudes will become more enlightened in future.