Hi - if you're reading this out of curiosity well I hope you find it interesting. If you're reading it from genuine interest as a sub female who's looking for the endgame then Im happy to see you.

First off let me say Im not a dickhead or a safety risk. Iv always wanted this kind of life and since we only live once here goes. Im a 41yr old intelligent & reasonably attractive guy living in West Yorkshire, UK. Im self-employed but do not own property as yet. I like all the usual stuff except housework although I do do it. I like a tidy and clean home & garden.

In terms of yourself Im interested in finding a sub who would like to explore the life, or who has and knows what she wants. You will need to be between 25 - 38 yrs old, slim, fit & well-read. Apart from that Im not too fussy - what matters is personality and your mind.

Sexually Im pretty straightforward for someone into this scene - listed on the main page are things I already enjoy, if you have others I'll be sure to find them out and work them in. Absolute no-nos are - kids, animals, shit, extreme pain involving blood, cutting, fire etc. If you are very heavily into being cuckqueened/deeply humiliated then again I'll have trouble doing that to you - some arrangement may be possible for the right person but it will need looking into. If you believe being kept naked while indoors is a humiliation and not a pleasure for both dom/sub then look elsewhere.

The thing Im after is the relationship. The bond between sub/dom is far more intense than vanilla relationships and Id like to live it out. What you will need to realise is that I'll be looking to you for at first short periods of submission, gradually lengthening until we both get comfortable enough to make it permanent.

Since it's illegal to own humans in this day & age and rightly so, this will of course be a voluntary arrangement. You will always have recourse to your safe word for this reason. A permanent agreement will have to be legally drafted when the time comes.

If at some point you decide you want to give away the safe word, then that's up to you - I'll never mention it to you except for right now. No pressure will ever be applied to you regarding that. The legal deal will still stand even past it.

I have some other more detailed things I would like to have happen but they are largely negotiable and not that important anyway so I'll leave them aside for now. Two things I insist on - no soap opera's when Im about. I totally hate soaps. Absolute mind rotting crap. ;) Collars - you will wear one. One for the street, one for the house, and some really nice ones for best. Because we will be going out on a regular basis and having fun - vanilla as well as BDSM.

So that's about it for now. Oh yeah - if you've read 50 shades of grey and think you know all about this scene think again. What makes a nice fantasy won't be so interesting after you've been in it for a while and I don't want dumping the wrong side of 50 and having to start all over again. That being said, while I look for the one Im happy to do starter training for newbies.

So come along - I won't bite you. Not VERY hard anyway. ;)

Cheers pet! x

(& a big long wet kiss for the serious girls.)