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Bedroom Issues
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So my boyfriend texted me that he wanted to try something new....i was all excited at first as my mind flooded with all the kinky things we have done so far...
But as i scrolled down my screen the pic of a pair of handcuffs and a fly swatter!
So now that i know he wants to try some bondage sex but am too skeptical about the whole idea!
Am afraid it would hurt too much!
Any fellow sissies ever had bdsm? Plz lete know how difficult it is!
Awaiting responses :/
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Posted on : May 23, 2015
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Commented on May 24, 2015
Thanks for the comment sub2godess ...all thise things you wrote are pretty helpful... And yea he is trustworthy ^__^
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Commented on May 24, 2015
I love being tied up. The whole loss of power and being at the disposal of another human being is intensely intoxicating. I strongly recommend adding a blindfold. Your entire focus becomes the point of contact.
I am less of a masochist, but people who enjoy it say that it is just as exciting. Don't forget the aftercare, where he caresses and comforts you while you come down from the pain high.
It is important to have a safeword that lets him know when you have had or are getting too much. The standard words are Red, stop, Green, Go, and Yellow, a little less. This let's you say, "Stop! Don't rape me!" as much as you like without coming out of the roleplay to explain that you are not really wanting to stop. It also works to have hand signals if you are using a gag as well.
If your boyfriend is trustworthy, have fun. If you don't trust him in this, dump him and find someone you can trust.
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Commented on May 23, 2015
i've done my fair share of tying.... it's so much fun!! and the sex is incredibly wild when we're both so turned on by the kinky foreplay....
i need to get myself tied up too one of these days.... would love to know what it's like from the other perspective...
best of luck to you honey : )
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