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What should be obvious
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I have recently had an experieince with someone that was difficult to comprehend.
I am on a porn site, putting pictures of myself out there... hell — I am a sub sissy slut. I get all of that.
But there is NO WAY I would want to put myself in real harm — I mean purposely causing myself physical pain. Nor would I want to have anyone else cause me pain or injury. Being "sub" does not mean I would be willing for someone to put me in jeopardy to the point where I would require medical attention.
There are other "subs" here. We all like the emersion into that world. We get the pleasure from being dominated. Being told what to do. But there is a lot to consider in reality. When I am being told to do something or remain in a state that may very well result in a trip to the ER, then it is no longer a thrill — but rather a case where either I am stupid or the person I am dealing with (even in cyberspace) is dangerous and needs to be ignored/blocked.
I thought it may be enough to just block them — and I have. I won't go so far as to ID the person at this time. As long as he stays aways from me, and disassociates from me — but the point of this is to just say to all of my "sisters" here — be careful. Ask questions. Have fun, but be at least somewhat careful of who you are dealing with. If the person you are "playing" with is that obnoxious, that mean, and demanding to put you in a dangerous place — get away from them...
No erotic fantasy, self pleasure is worth putting you in danger.
Be safe!
Andrea
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Posted on : Feb 28, 2015
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Commented on Mar 3, 2015
As a dom, I could not agree more. There are bad people in every group and that includes guys who pretend to be doms but are in reality dangerous sadists with no regard for others.
In their warped mind a sub is simply prey to be used.
Glad you are okay!
It might be difficult, or for some impossible, but keep in mind that unwanted abuse is assault and illegal. There is no reason he could not be jailed for assault if you chose to press charges. I know, there are ramifications that could be incredibly awkward if that course was taken, but don't let the bastard know that. Most bullies are cowards and faced with the real possibility of a felony assault conviction will back off. Plenty of husbands have been convicted of raping their wives. This is no different.
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Commented on Feb 28, 2015
Well said Andrea. I'm far from a sub myself but it should be obvious to anyone that the game is in the submission, not in pain, danger or damage. Or worse.
Hope you're OK hun. Feel free to talk stuff over in PM if you need to. x
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