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Now these are raw thoughts, just so you know, there are so many fantasies out there in the net and very littleactual thoughts that many, no doubt, are having. English is not my native tongue, so please excuse me, if there are any mistakes.
First of all:
Iis cuckoldry natural?
A CNN poll found that 1 in 5 women
admitted to having sex with someone other than their spouse/boyfriend
while in a committed relationship. Since women are not very willing to divulge such facts , that number is probably 3 in 5 and probably close to 5 out of 5 of women who have thought about doing it.
Wanting sex with the right male is driven by hormones - when a man who is sexually attractive to the female and emitting the right mix of pheromones comes near her, her own hormones kick in and the urge
to breed becomes her focus. Most of the time we girls suppress the appetite as society doesn't take a kind look at us being sexually active with many males even when we are single (see terms like whore and slut etc).
It is also natural to ensure that she gets to pass on her genetic properties with the best male and not put all her eggs in one basket or with one male. In the animal kingdom the male is chosen by battle, and it is natural for the female to
mate with the winner and even violently reject the loser.
At the same time the female has the wish to look for a stable partner to care for her when she is weak and ironically the same properties that make the best man for breeding the best man are the ones that make him the worst for the job of taking care of her. Aside from the financial aspects the female is looking for a caring partner to raise her offspring to the point when they are not as dependant on her. And from that point she will start looking for another strong individual to mate with.
From the males point of view, the battle with another man, even if lost, does not finish the war. He will try to ensure his dominance over the female whomhe regards as his and wants to make sure that the he gets to breed her. For that purpose he must make sure the competitors semen is removed from her vagina and his put it place. Scientists have confirmed that the male penis has evolved to be how it looks like for just that purpose - the foreskin has not only the function of protecting the sensitive nerves concentrated in the "head" of the penis, but also trapping competitors semen whithin it's folds (so think before circumsize! haha)and the"head" of the penis is shaped like a pump because the edge at the base of the head fuctions as a scoop, removing competitors semen from the vagina. It is also natural to lick or use the mouth as a tool to remove the competitors semen from the vagina. That is also most likely the reason that the cuckold is obliged to clean the vagina of his partner in life from the semen of others.
Forming a social hierarchy based on sex
and dominance is a very natural thing, it's seen in nature all the time
with alpha males but in the more intelligent naturals like chimpanzees
the females help too, often using a weak male as a kind of babysitter or
servant while going off with the dominant male. In our closest relative
the bonobo chimp males exert dominance over other males in a similar
manner to the cuck/bull relationship.
From the female perspective it's natural to want to breed with a stronger male and to seek dominance over and deny sex to the weaker male (weaker in terms of breeding). To this end the females seek to show the weaker male that she has been bred by a better male and literally rub his nose in it establishing her dominance over him. That's why presenting a well fucked pussy full of sperm to the husband and forcing him to accept his role as a cuckold by making him lick the semen residue of his competitor is a cornerstone of the cuckolding fetish. This also explains why she doesn't want to have sex with the husband who has lost his right to mate with her and thus to re-establish his dominance over her.
The biological function of the penis as a tool for breeding and removing the competitors semen is probably why many women prefer men with a larger tool (aside from the pleasure). The bigger tool deposits semen deeper, cleans the vagina from the competitors sperm deeper and provides more pleasure thus ensuring the female orgasm which by the way also gives a bigger chance of a successful breeding. During the female orgasm the cervix opens to allow more semen to pass through and also has a scooping motion to actively get more semen in the uterus so that they might fertilize the egg. The male with a smaller penis has a smaller chance of ensuring successful impregnation and removal of competitors semen.
Scientists have confirmed that the full structure of the clitoris nearly
follows the entire vagina. it looks like a wishbone with the clit at
the junction and the forks running to the cervix. However, more importantly for us, was the finding that
while organisms via the clitoris are introduced by direct stimulation,
orgasms that originate in the vagina are induced by deep tissue
compression and expansion. in other words, it really does matter how
deep you and go and how thick you are. bigger cock enables more
orgasms which increases likelihood of impregnation. Bottom line, size
does matter biologically and it is therefore no surprise that women are
giving a evolutionary reward increased pleasure for mating with big
cocks.
Now the male, no matter how big his penis or how high he is on the levelof men will always seek to breed women. That's literally in their genes. So what makes a cuckold relationship work? In my opinion it's the female - she must assert her dominance over the lesser male and prevent him from breeding with other women. She must also ensure that he is sexually satisfied or he will leave her to try to find a suitable mate (and eventually finding one albeit one that is lower level as she is willing to accept his dominance over her).
So to me it would seem that cuckoldry is natural. It is just not socially accepted. What do you think?
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