Blowjobs are perverted. Here's why:  Under *normal* circumstances, we tend to think of oral sex as just a part of the overall process - just a fun sort of forplay to the main event. But in our culuture of casual enciunters, sexual intrigue, and downright fear of babies, blowjobs have become something else entirely: An artform, and a tool. A tool of seduction. A special *slippery treat* that may start out as a reward, and then the whitholding of which becomes a punishment... mind control. Of the sweetest, most wickedly erotic sort. 

When i take up with a new man, especially one I actually really LIKE, i feel like i've seeded control; he holds all the cards to my emotional deck!  I'm vulnerable and a little insecure. That's why I almost always *begin my work* day by day... week by week, month by slippery balls-deep-throated-kiss month, i work. Steadily.

Yes, we sure do SCREW and utterly FUCK, but what you don't realize... what you may not comprehend.. is that I've also broken-you with blowjobs.