I'm starting this blog to share my experiences as a HOTWIFE. I needed a forum to share all my thoughts, feelings, and explicit details of the best sex life anyone could imagine. My bull/boyfriend shared this site with me so I hope him, my husband, and anyone else reading this gets off on what I'm about to share. 

I titled this post as "Just Getting Started" because I've been living this fantasy for just under a year now and each time I/we get together with my bull, it gets better and better as we take it to new levels. But I don't want to leave anything out so that all experiences get posted here. All thoughts and working through issues etc need to be covered so that any couple thinking about starting this lifestyle can learn from us. 

How did this happen to me and how did I get so lucky to have such a wonderful husband and find the perfect boyfriend/bull on the first try?  (side note: I want to call him my boyfriend but he is also my bull because my husband also likes to be involved...in the cuckold role... not only watching but participating as he is told. 😉)  

For a number of years my husband and I have been experimenting with going to lifestyle events, on/off premise clubs/parties, etc. During these times, I mostly enjoyed putting on a show with either my husband or a bi-sexual female partner and not necessarily swinging with other couples. In the clubs it was hard for me to get comfortable as I never EVER was a one night stand kind of girl. I never even did that when I was single...I was the shy quiet type...  The events were exciting and fun but we would limit it to a few times a year, mostly while we were traveling.

My husband regularly mentioned that he wanted to watch me have sex with other guys...that it would be a real turn on for him. I role played it with him during sex but never imagined it would ever really happen. I honestly didn't think he would be able to handle it. We have a very strong relationship with little jealousy and a lot of trust which is necessary when getting into this lifestyle but I guess I just didn't understand just how much he wanted me to turn this fantasy into reality.  Little did I know how this would strengthen our relationship and push our sex life to places it's never been before!

The first time was incredible!  It started in May 2014 while we were staying in a different town while my husband was attending a conference.  That picture my husband texted to me absolutely sent me over the edge...I was wet from the start...  It was a simple picture of my now boyfriend/bull...no nudity just him...  The text said "would this one work for you?"  I couldn't believe the thoughts that started racing through my mind. Really?  I mean, you really want me to  meet this HOT young guy?  I replied with a big YES, PLEASE, YES!!  And so we talked it over, my expectations, his expectations and understanding of what I wanted and how we would work it out. Of course I just wanted to meet the guy and no sex the first time...my one night stand issue again, right!

We met at a bar that night and...I could feel the instant sexual tension...and wanted to tear into him right away but I wasn't about to compromise my principles. I'm sure my husband coached him on how to handle me and it was great. After a few drinks and conversation it was clear we all three had a lot in common and this was going to work out very well. We walked to the parking deck and my husband said "why don't you walk him to his car" and so I did. I was both extremely nervous and extremely sexually aroused. He pulled me toward him so our bodies were pressed against each other and kissed me passionately and I felt like I was melting and I'm sure my panties were soaked with my wetness but then I walked away.  Until the next night...

more to follow...