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Be yourself!
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Be Yourself
Be authentic which most people want to but few do it for real! Cos authenticity, that has become just a label. Another useful mask like most of our ideals which used to be real some time.
More, these days, in the time of cynizm, barely anyone still believes in values like honesty, truthfulness, or authenicity!
Imagine there be authenticity for real - what does it mean to live authentically? How to be authentic?
My ideas go like this:
1) You want to be authentic? Know who you ae. Then be yourself!
Being authentic actually means to be original - though, how can you see if you are youself?
The only way of authenticity is to be conscious of what is really important to you, and of your most important wishes, too. Do know your values! Try getting more aware of what matters in life really. And dare to live accordingly. That is authenticity!
2) Authenticity is not recklessness!
There are enough assholes, rude and reckless, who apologize, "So what? I'm just authentic."
So do not mistake apples for oranges cos if you pursue your own target merely, if you do not at all care for your neighbor, so you are merely selfish and arbitrary! Authentic people should neither forget they live with others, nor abuse authenticity!
3) Recognize yourself!
Any cunt could point its dirty finger at you. But you, look at your inner mirror! As authenticity is also to face yourself, just do it!
The naked truth. Who are you in fact? Not the one you would like to be. Not anybody else you dream of. Only you.
That is why authenticity wants you to be truthful about your very self. What you really think. How you really feel. What you really want. And what you really do. For your action show what you need. Really.
4) Dare to reflect
Authentic individuals are supposed to be pretty spontaneous: Now or never! What am I waiting for! Live today if it was my last one in life. - No way!
On the other hand, you have to check out yourself. Reflexion on your motives. Ask for the why. Reason tells you to use your mind.
5) Listen to your heart!
An authentic person never stops learning. There is a voice from inside. I ask you to listen. Your feelings tell you certain secrets of your subconsciousness. Some be wrong, others be right. Start feeling!
Possible reasons for showing oneself nude:
Terms such as nudity, sex, porn, shame, narcissizm, molestation, or exhibitionizm appear almost synonymous today. The truth is they are not the same. They have got the same core instead.
I am thought to be as authentic as possibly. While no one is perfect, and neither am I.
As an authentic human being, you keep your mind open. You stay vulnerable right in the days of sorrow and despair! Right then again and again!
Cos you can be sure of that joy of life is just one side of sensivity. Only if you keep sensitive, that is vulnerable, you keep your ability to enjoy your life at all. Take any emotion. No matter how hard or easy, good or bad, painful or ecstatic. Feel it. Live. Your pure, real, authentic feelings. I call that life!
I have gotten asked lotsa times for my reasons to expose myself ultimately. For art, or for a cam!? I figure a bit of narcissizm and also an exhibionist attribute are premises to do so. - Further, I know that is not everything yet. There has got to be more. Anyhow. I ain't care any more.
Erophobia
Erophobic individuals would presume every member of the colorful Youporn scene was sexually abused or traumatized otherwise. Once you get naked, you get dirty in their opinion. They call you whore, slut, sicko, et CeTe ra. Have it you way.
Everybody makes mistakes and his choice. For instance, for taking the risk of getting recognized on the internet. Use a nick, it is alright. Dare to be more authentic, you are okay as well.
Exhibitionizm
I would define my ethics this way: Nudism per se is to be tolerated insofar as it is based on mutual consent. Any act is consensual.
In other words, if you show bare, you really want to. And if I watch you stark naked, I want it for real. The exhibitionist and the voyeur have got this simple kind of consence. Nothing else matters.
Someone who makes someone else get undressed against his will, someone forcing another person to see his nudity even if that one does not want to, that is crime. So perverted a subject is a criminal. No question!
Those guidelines are blurring. Particularly on the web. This sexualization of the internet must be an actual paradise to both exhibitionist and voyeur. Beware! Today's trends such as sexting by children or cybermobbing are enough examples - actually two sides of the same coin. Not as harmless as it could be.
But every considerate nudist like me can choose between a lot of adult sites where he realize his spleen legally! Youporn, Xvideos, [SPAM], Tumblr, Skype, and so on.
Porn addiction
You can become addicted to everthing pleasurable: chocolate, cigarettes, alcohol, and porn, of course. Also you can be a rather compulsive character. Then you are especially endangered. I find the following definition quite helpful: Desire is spontaneous while addiction is structural. It says you are alright if your sexuality make fun. If not, you maybe should think about its true nature in your life.
Nevertheless, I guess sex as a way of relaxation is anything but questionable. There are so many things much worse than jerking off yourself once ever day, right?
Lucky you if you have got a living partner, or if you do not need having sex that much. I am married, and I am not as arrogant as not to see lonely people in need of love online. And just if you find pleasure in cybersex, everything will be okay. Again, have it your way!
Pornography
I have got to express some thoughts on pornography eventually. Cos I feel damn sick of all those intolerant subjects who pretend to know the truth. Me, even though I might think so, I will be probably wrong. For what is the truth?
One part of the truth is hypocrisy. Hypocrites, I prefer calling them hypocretins, they appear to be a poison when percerting the human nature for ever and ever. Hypocrites have been causing misery ever since. Lies. Crusades, inquisition, holocaust, djihad - the list would never end.
Art
Whether or not pornography be some art form? Ask youself? I would say beauty lie in the eye the beholder. Therfore, there will be more but one answer.
Fuck you the hell out of your buddy and claim to be an artist, why not? To you, shit is artistic? If you say so.
I do not dare judging your taste cos I meet much resistance against my own artworx. That is not my cup.
Thus far. I am. The last step. Everything is said. Everything is done. Have it your way.
Gaywolf1990
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Posted on : Nov 25, 2014
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