I'm a Dom a Master a Daddy a mix of all these things and have been for nearly a decade now. There is one thing that geninly puzzes me.

It often seems that the more submissive and desperate to please men a women is the more overweight she is. I've tried to figure this out for a while now. These larger subs are often very happy to get into corsets or sexy underwear, to show off and try to visaually please men. So the desire to please visually is there so why not the desire to get into shape?*

I have had the pleasure of one sub who asked that part of her training was enforced gym attendance and only being allowed cake or chocolate as a reward. But she asked. I've found that if as a Master or potental Master it is raised it only ever brings offence.

But to me physical appearence is less important than a womans mind and yet women redily seek mental conditioning and behavior modification. 

Odd.

Having said that I understand why demands to loose weight before being considered would stop a slave from giving herself to a Master. 

Just some thoughts.

*of course some people have health reasons and I love the variety of shapes women are in as long as they are healthy.