You know... it has been brought to my attention that some men, even older men who know better, seem to think women like being treated poorly. Demeaned, punished, belittled... though that can sometimes be part of a sexual fantasy, it is not a good way to start a conversation! LOL

Women are sensitive thougthful emotional sexual beings. We are horny as well and really do want many of the same things as men. 

I'm not saying don't flirt... I'm just saying, do try to be a little bit classy in your approach! A dick pic is not the first thing I want to see of you. Usually.. heh heh heh...

Seriously. Be a genteman, and you will be treated like a gentleman. In all the best ways.  ;->