years ago, well before the internet was popular, i used phone dating services and tried to find a guy to masturbate together watching hardcore bdsm porn in a house which i owned at the time. those phone dating services were anonymous meaning that identities and phone numbers were not disclosed. one guy did come to my place and within minutes after starting the video i pulled my pants down and started stroking my little dick. he did that too and then grabbed my arm, made me turn around and spanked my ass for about a minute and then left as he said he had some urgent business to attend to. he called later but i chickened out and we never met again. to this day i regret that.

there were no digital cameras or iphones at the time or i would have been fucked as he would surely have taken a few pictures and blackmailed me over this and i could easily have lost the house.