Being new to crossdressing, I have realized that it usually starts as a very private thing at some point in your life.  You borrow, steal, or buy a few items to wear, try out some makeup, put on a wig, and feel something that's exciting, but feels right and good.  And so you keep doing it.

Eventually you want to connect with someone else.  A friend, a stranger, but someone that you can tell or show this new part of you to, You risk rejection with people you know, so there is a tendency to seek out strangers who are less judgmental, and may be excited by this crossdressed you.

Strangers are a thrill for a moment, or an hour, or a night, then you move on to the next thrill.

At some point you recognize that you would like to connect with someone who really understands, and for more than a quick boink or suck.

A lot of crossdressers are in relationships where they have to keep their crossdressing a secret.  Even if you're not, you are probably surrounded by people who would not understand. It leaves most crossdressers in a primary state of isolation.

I think there needs to be a safe zone--a place for crossdressers to meet with other crossdressers for parlor chats and bedroom play.  I've been trying to create something like this in my community, but largely finding that it's difficult enough to get two gurls together for one on one, or dressup and tea, let alone getting a third or fourth to meet as a group.  Lots say they are interested, I've not been able to arrange a single get together with more than one other crossdresser.

So I bring this here to you to see if anyone has been effective in gathering groups, either as the organizer or the participant.  I'm looking to crack the code on what works, and would appreciate any suggestions or help.  I'm open to dialogue, so please feel free to comment or message me.

Clitty Kisses,

Linzi