If you are reading this it is probably becuase of comments I have posted on images on this site. And those comments have been vile and repulsive.

I cannot undo them but I can disown them.

My motivation for making them, to do with my charachter and personality, are irrelevant; it is for me to deal with that. What I do say is they should not have been made and I regret doing so. 

Whatever problems or 'issues' we may have (with ourselves, or the world, or other people) are not helped by promoting hate or violence. Quite the opposite will happen. The hate simply corrodes us, our ability to empathise with others and risks making the world a much worse place.

The comments we make are not simply 'words', they can have consquences. They have the potential to harm others, directly or indirectly. The comments we make on this site are not part of a game that is separate from the world; it is part of the world. We all know this, of course, but for whatever reasons ignore or avoid the truth. While we cannot undo previous mistakes, we can most certainly stop making new ones.

Every woman is free to dress and behave in any way she wants.

It is not for anyone to make judgements about the type of person she might be or type of person she actually is.

If you have agreed with the comments I have made on images then I urge you to  recognise the definite harm you are doing to yourself and the potential harm to others. But the good news is we can change and improve by taking small and simple steps that benefit everyone, most of all ourselves.

That first step is to simply stop making abusive comments. The next step, is to ask ourselves why we made them in the first place. The answers to that we will probably have to seek individually and over time.

Making other people's lives shitty won't make mine any less so.

So, More Love, Less Hate.