My Lord Augustus, here as “Princeps_Cyberius,” has been looking for a place from us to expand the experiences of our polyamorous family — now consisting of him, myself, my sister Kasie, and our newest member, Rose — into cyberspace. I have to confess a driving force of this is my long-repressed exhibitionist desire. Along with that, both Augustus and I are teachers, and he a born storyteller, thus we yearn to share our special and wonderful circumstances with any who are interested. The problem is that we are also all professionals for whom it might prove most uncomfortable if out bohemian lifestyle became general knowledge.

The relative anonymity of cyberspace seems the best answer for this dilemma. First we were quite happy at the late, great MyDungeonSpace.com. That is where we were blessed to meet Rose. Then it closed down. So we tried the better, if underutilized, facilities at BDSMcafe.net. Then it closed down. Most recently, we were at BDSMfriendbook. Then it closed down.

Hoping were aren’t a curse, we have arrived here. Unlike the latter two, we had advanced notice that MyDungeonSpace.com was going to close, and Augustus wisely had us archive all of our blogs from there. (He has instructed us to do the same thing here.) They tell part of the story of how our special family came to be. Here are mine:

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Profile Update DATE: Apr 29 2012, 8:29 am / MOOD: Domme space

About Yourself

I am an artist, photographer, and educator.

I am submissive to Augustus, but Domme to most of the other men and all women who have shared my bed.

I am a lover of the written word. If You would serve me, although I may allow you online live sessions if we can time it, you would serve me primarily by written tributes, and interactive written fantasies. By "interactive" I mean that we would write fantasies together, taking turns filling in the details. If this appeals to you, then your first task is simple: Request my friendship here at MDS.

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My Turn DATE: Jun 03 2012, 4:52 pm / MOOD: Okay

Augustus bade me and my sister Casey to join MyDungeonSpace.com to include sharing, exhibitionist-style, stories and pictures of our BDSM activities in this accepting setting. I have been Augustus's consort, on-and-off, since 1978, although we didn't first make love until 1980. Casey has been our sexual slave, on-and-off, since 1981.

Casey has already done a number of blogs about her enslavement by us. The irony is that I've always been the more adventuresome of the two of us when it came to exhibitionism, or at least sexual adventures in public places. Yet, I have found it difficult to openly display photos of my activities and comment upon them the way she has been doing. It has taken a direct command from Augustus (he is the only man whose orders I'll follow these days) to get me to actually do this.

As Casey has done, I will now display photos taken by Augustus during a recent tryst, and comment upon them:

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/83312.jpg

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/83311.jpg

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/83310.jpg

Augustus, it seems, has honored my request of not showing photos of me bound. For now, I intend to take a dominant role in my interactions here. Pictures of me bound might undermine that.

You might think that pictures of me giving him oral sex are just as demeaning. If so, I disagree. Even when subjugating men, I use oral sex. It is an ideal instrument of control!

I'm supposed to comment on how having these photos displayed publically makes me feel. I wrote above that "I have found it difficult to openly display photos of my activities and comment upon them." It turns out that was not due to discomfort but, rather, disinterest.

Quite honestly, it neither bothers nor excites me to show the pictures above. Augustus and I have been in several group affairs over the years. I have made love to him in front of a number of different people, ranging from near strangers to my own sister. Having exhibited myself this way for real many times, knowing that some fellow free-thinkers are seeing photos of me doing it is no big deal.

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A Study in Glamour DATE: Jun 14 2012, 11:24 am / MOOD: Pleased

I am a photographer, and have posted some of my photographs here before.

I mostly do landscapes,

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/82579.jpg

and architectual,

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/82582.jpg

and nature photos.

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/82580.jpg

I recently shot this photo of my sister Casey;

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/83822.jpg

I had just put a new battery in my camera and took this shot to test it. Afterward, I thought it made a nice portrait.

It made me want to shoot more portraits. I ended up recruiting my first model from right here at MDS, the lovely Miss Greta:

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/84250.jpg

I want to thank Greta publicly for: 1. Taking an interest in my phtography, 2. Agreeing to model for me, and 3. Driving half-way across the state yesterday to come to my home to do it.

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/84269.jpg

It was also Greta who picked "Hollywood Glamour" as the theme for the shoot.

 http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/84264.jpg

(Technically, it wasn't a "shoot," but a "study" because it was done more for my practice than to create photos for a particular use; if it had been a "shoot" I would have used better equipment, including reflectors, to get rid of some of the odd shadows, etc.)

While I used a Nikon SLR for the "official" study, a couple of my favorite photos, including the one above with her hand on her head, I took with a simple point-and-shoot:

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/84270.jpg

and

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/84271.jpg

In photography, the subject and the moment are always more important than the equipment. Greta was a great subject and gave me many exceptional moments!

I have posted 22 of the almost 100 pictures I took yesterday in my gallery. I hope you stop by to enjoy Greta's glamorous beauty!

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A Study in Contrasts DATE: Jun 22 2012, 6:31 pm / MOOD: Satisfied

In my last blog, I described a bit of my background as a photographer, and how I ended up recently doing a photographic study using someone I met though MyDungeonSpace, Greta, as my model. After that occassion, we both agreed we wanted to do it again as soon as possible, so she again drove half-way across the state to come to my home for another shoot. It was even more wonderful than her last visit, and not entirely for reasons that have to do with photography. (For many professions, it is considered unethical for the professional to sleep with her client. I don't think that applies to photographers, at least I hope not... more about that later.)

The first set of pictures were kind of bland. We wanted to again do a series of glamor shots, but this time with Greta in a white dress. The only shot out of the whole batch I really like is this one:

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/84509.jpg

It was Greta who then suggested we try some nudes or erotic photographs. I have no experience in these, but I said I'd try. I ended up with another first that night, including parts of my own body in several of the photos. Of them all, this is my favorite:

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/84530.jpg

I wish the focus was a little better, but I was, after all, operating the camera with one hand.

I also like this one, especially because of the way the shadow from my index finger plays across and thus highlights her nipple:

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/84533.jpg

Other than the similar photos your will find in my "Greta" folder, we did no more photagraphy that evening, even though Greta ended up spending the night. You can probably guess what happened instead.

The next day's shoot went much better. Greta had brought this cute faux sailor outfit and rather than going for glamor, we just had fun. None the less, we ended up getting what is not just the sexiest photo I have ever taken, but one that just oozes glamor:

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/84524.jpg

There are plenty of other great shots like this in my "Greta" folder that you might enjoy.

I honestly believe the reason this shoot turned out so well was because Greta and I had slept together the night before. It was like we could read each other's minds as we worked. Now, I have so many more reasons to look forward to our next shoot.

But of course, it begs the question... To do my best work, will I have to make love to all my subjects from now on???? ;-)

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A Study in Pain? DATE: Jun 27 2012, 5:00 am / MOOD: Amused

I took this series of photos of Casey in Augustus's basement "dungeon" last Friday night:

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/84604.jpg

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/84603.jpg

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/84602.jpg

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/84601.jpg

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/84599.jpg

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/84598.jpg

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/84597.jpg

She is actually not in pain, but having multiple orgasms. I always wondered about the validity of the cliche that the facial expressions of agony and ecstasy are indistinguishable. This seems to suggest it is true.

I apologize about the quality of these photos. They weren't planned, so I took them with an old point-and-shoot Augustus had down there. Also, the above series is slightly abridged. You can see the whole thing, and more of my photos in my gallery.

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A Study in Classic Beauty DATE: Jul 23 2012, 3:30 pm / MOOD: Exhausted

Greta spent the weekend. We finally got around to some photography on Sunday afternoon. We went into town and ended up using a Neoclassical bank building as a backdrop.

In several shots I used the architectural elements to dress up the background:

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/85064.jpg

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/85067.jpg

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/85065.jpg

Elsewhere, I found a plain background and focused on Greta's classic features:

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/85069.jpg

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/85068.jpg

Of course, we couldn't leave it entirely respectable, and it just made me love Greta more when she unbuttoned her blouse just off Main Street to allow me this shot:

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/85070.jpg

If you want to see the rest of this shoot, and my earlier ones with Greta, you can find these in this folder. You can find more of my photography in my full gallery. I hope you enjoy them.

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A Study in Youth DATE: Aug 06 2012, 1:41 pm / MOOD: Impressed

My Lord Augustus provided me with a new model for nudes this past weekend, Rosebud.

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/85487.jpg

Not only is she cute in personality and countenance, but she has an unbelievable body. I decided to shoot her in black and white to emphasize her exquisite form.

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/85485.jpg

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A Study in Cool DATE: Oct 28 2012, 1:45 pm / MOOD: Relaxed

I spent the last two days visiting Greta in Brookfield. With the onset of cold weather, I have to admit we spent most of the weekend in bed, but we did go into Milwaukee yesterday for some fun and photography. My favorite photo from this endeavor is this one:

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/86953.jpg

I don't like to crop my photos; it feels like cheating, but I did it in this case to add to the dramatic nature of the shot. I did the same in a similar picture taken just down the block.

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/86946.jpg

That was as great place for a shoot, and I really like this photo, too.

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/86945.jpg

And this dramatic one.

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/86947.jpg

And in case you are wondering what, if anything, she is wearing under her coat, I took this one at her condo.

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/86955.jpg

I hope that is not a disappointment.

If you like these pictures, you can find more in this folder of my public gallery. Please let me know what you think of them. Thank you.

There are a couple more like this one in my gallery.

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A Study in Pride DATE: Nov 18 2012, 3:07 pm / MOOD: Thankful

Augustus is my one and, as it turns out after many wasted years, my only Lord and Master.

He has instructed me to comment on a recent blog of his which includes a picture of most of my face as I lick his erect organ. Generally, we have revealed our faces here to a select few, trying to stay anonymous to all others. Augustus explains why in that blog. That being so, he wants me to blog my feeling about being "so explicitly shown" giving him oral sex.

Again, Augustus is my one and only Lord and Master. I have to say, however, that he deserves his reputation as something of an "absent minded professor." Consider this photograph, which he posted last summer:

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/84919.jpg

That has been posted in one of his public galleries since July! If someone might recognize me from these photos, I think that one would have done it.

Did he post my face to embarrass me? Of course not! He simply forgot for a bit our plan not to show photos publicly from which people might recognize us. I knew this, so I never complained.

In fact, I feel nothing but pride when displayed like this in my proper place, subservient to Augustus, my one and only Lord and Master.

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A Study in Black Vinyl DATE: Dec 09 2012, 5:15 pm / MOOD: Enthralled

After seeing Greta's exceptional costume from this past Halloween, I insisted that she model for me in it. The outcome was more wonderful than I hoped.

As seemed appropriate, we did the shoot in my basement, starting in the rec room. As she always does, Greta amazed me with how comfortable she always is in her own skin, even when it's sheathed in black vinyl.

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/87347.jpg

We then moved into my little home studio, where Greta had some fun with a chain, presaging much of the rest of the weekend.

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/87351.jpg

Finally, we moved to doing some shots in front of a green screen. I was considering finding some interesting background to put behind her, but quickly decided that Greta alone is intriguing enough.

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/87355.jpg

Besides, she didn't give me much opportunity, as this photo makes clear.

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/87357.jpg

This is the only one I manipulated at all, in order to emphasize her tongue. After I shot this one, Greta got up. Retrieved the chain and, twirling it ominously, ordered me to "strip."

I have written on my profile here that "I am submissive to Augustus, but Domme to most of the other men and all women who have shared my bed" (emphasis added). To be completely honest, that should now be read "all women but Greta." The minute she ordered me to "strip," I surrendered myself to her for the next two days, right up to the moment she left here about an hour ago.

I never imagined I could submit to another woman the way I do with Augustus, but having now done so, I know I would willing do so again for Greta. What this portends for our evolving relationship remains to be seen. I think, however, it means that we will only become closer, as we determine our status vis-a-vis each other.

By the way, there are more pictures from the shoot in this folder of my gallery.

As a final note, just for the ladies, if you have never tribbed against a lover who is wearing tight vinyl clothing, you have no idea what you are missing!

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Fifty Big Ones DATE: Dec 24 2012, 12:02 pm / MOOD: Indescribable

I turned 50 years old last Monday. It was no big deal at the time. To celebrate, I went to dinner with some friends from the college where I teach.

All the same, I really looked forward to this past Friday and traveling to Milwaukee to go out to dinner with m`Lord Augustus and my sister Casey. As I drove through the snow frosted countryside that afternoon, I looked forward to the three of us spending the weekend together at Augustus's house. That's not quite how it turned out, much to my extreme delight and pleasure.

Casey was already with Augustus when I arrived at his home. He drove us to one of my favorite Milwaukee restaurants, an old steakhouse which retains its cool decor from the early 1960s (think of Vegas when the Rat Pack reigned). Instead of heading to the maître d'hôtel's stand when we arrived, however, Augustus and Casey led me through a side door off the entrance and down a set of concrete stairs. We ended up in the restaurant's basement which it apparently rents out as a party room.

Augustus and Casey had arranged a surprise birthday party for me! The guests included many of our old friends from college and newer friends from academia. Best of all, Augustus had paid for my sister `Lita to fly up from Georgia for the party. (I'm told he'd made the same offer to my sister Cathy, who lives in Kansas City, but she could not make it.)

Of course, given the guest list, this was not any sort of BDSM party, or even a munch. Augustus and Casey, though, did find one way to honor our secret lifestyle. Fairly late, after everyone had a fair amount to drink (Augustus hired a small limousine to take anyone home who thought they shouldn't drive, which made the liquor from the open bar flow more freely), Casey produced a yardstick. She announced that everyone would take turns spanking me with it until I had fifty spanks.

I instantly became aroused, then mortified. Few things turn me on like spankings. Also, as Augustus and I have written about elsewhere, I harbor strong but necessarily repressed exhibitionist desires. I worried how I would react to this public spanking.

It turned out alright in the end (so to speak). Some people, out of embarrassment or misguided pity, scarcely touched me. Enough gave me decent whacks, however, to result in two minor climaxes and one moderate orgasm. Augustus assures me only he and Casey guessed what it was. They say that rest of the guests surely attributed my fervid expression and high-pitched groan to pain. I hope he is right.

I have had orgasms in public before, but usually in a secluded restaurant booth or a darkened airliner. This time I had a couple dozen people staring right at me! While that idea excites me, I still worry that someone else might have figured it out. I have to trust Augustus's judgement that they didn't. At least no one acted odd about it afterward.

The rest of the party was completely vanilla, so I won't bore you with the details. The remainder of the weekend, however, bears reporting. At the end of the evening, after the four of us had one last drink back at Augustus's house, Casey took `Lita home with her to Racine. I would have Augustus all to myself — or vice-versa actually — for the whole weekend.

`Lita knows nothing about our BDSM lifestyle (nor the special love Casey and I share), so Augustus waited until they left to reveal what he intended. He had me undress, then explained that with me having already received 50 spankings, he planned instead to give me 50 orgasms over the course of the weekend. He immediately then set to work, pushing me down onto the couch and giving me cunnilingus with his unsurpassed skill.

I came rather quickly. He backed off while I caught my breath, then resumed his unparalleled oral techniques. After a little while longer I had another orgasm.

Augustus immediately stood and went to the kitchen. He returned with a Sharpie permanent marker. He rolled me onto my stomach. I'm not sure what sound I made as I felt him print two hash-marks on my still tender right buttock, but it made Augustus laugh as he said: "Two down and 48 to go."

He had no trouble making his goal, even though he did not have the full 24 hours. Saturday, he released me to go spend the whole afternoon at the mall with Casey and `Lita. Sunday morning the four of us got together again for brunch. That was the hardest part of the weekend for me. By then, my privates were pretty sore, and all I could think about the then 34 hash-marks across my butt. (What would `Lita say if she saw them?) It meant I faced 16 more orgasms when Augustus and I returned to his house that afternoon. (Actually, it was only 15 there, because he fingered me to one on the way home.)

We finally got to numbers 48 through 50 this morning. We actually could have considered ourselves done a lot sooner, but Augustus insisted on counting any rapid fire multiple climaxes as a single orgasm. He insisted that I have some non-orgasmic time between each climax that counted.

Augustus is asleep now and I'm typing this on his computer. When I'm done here, I'll make him lunch, then we will part ways. He is going to spend the holiday at his brother's house. I'm driving down to see `Lita off on her flight home, then spend the next couple days with Casey to celebrate Christmas. (Our folks are on a Christmas river cruise in Europe, so the whole family is not getting together this year.)

I cannot wait to show Casey the fifty hash-marks across my butt. Augustus and I are already discussing what we will do when Casey turns 50 next year. I plan to drop just enough hints now to drive her crazy.

In closing, I want to reflect on how this weekend demonstrates what makes Augustus such a wonderful Master. The sexual component of that is self-evident and requires no further comment. Rather, I mean how he shows how much he cares in nonsexual ways. I don't even want to think what he spent on my birthday, with `Lita's airfare and the all night open bar and nonstop hors d'oeuvres. He also gave me some interesting books and some lingerie.

Even more so, it is, indeed, the thought that counts. He knew what it would mean to me to mark the start of my second half-century surrounded by friends and family; so he made it happen. That he then spent a weekend with me as the sole object of his amorous attention (which has grown increasingly rare now that Casey lives so close and we have added Rose to our retinue; not to mention the time I now devote to Greta), was simply the ideal icing on the proverbial birthday cake.

Augustus mentions now and then that many younger men here ask him for advice on how to be successful Masters. I am going to humbly suggest that he point them to this blog. They need to know it's not just the sex, nor just the romance, nor just the discipline, nor just the thoughtfulness. It is the way that Augustus combines all of these that makes him someone to whom I am so devoted.

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Partially Exposed DATE: Mar 17 2013, 6:10 pm / MOOD: Ecstatic

As m`Lord Augustus and I have written about elsewhere, I harbor very strong but necessarily repressed exhibitionist desires. Thus, while a couple pictures revealing my face have slipped though the cracks here, they have all been at least somewhat distorted by the exertion of fellatio or expression of orgasm. Nonetheless, I have long wanted to put an appropriate portrait of myself on my profile page here, but we believed that made it just a bit too easy for someone to find me here who I might not want to know about this side of my life. At least the more explicit photos of me referenced above are hidden away in blogs and galleries.

Casey took a picture of me last weekend that we all think will be okay to put on my profile page here, where it has now been added.

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/88903.jpg

Speaking of pictures, I spent the last few days alone with Casey, skiing up north. For my MDS friends, couple pictures from our getaway weekend are posted in the With Casey folder of the "Friends Only" section of my gallery.

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SWITCHing Roles DATE: Apr 21 2013, 6:20 pm / MOOD: Content

I was always dominant with women. Then I met Greta, and felt for her the same need to submit as I have always felt with m`Lord Augustus. I've now taken this even further. This weekend just passed, I switched roles with our slave Rose, letting her spend the weekend as Augustus's consort while I served them as slave.

Knowing Augustus's love for me is eternal, I had no qualms lending my traditional place to Rose. It felt wondeful to simply surrender to them and for three days of bliss have no need to lead, just serve.

In recognition of all this, I'm changing my "Role" at the "MY DETAILS" section of my profile from "Dominant" to "Switch."

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Wonderful Weekend. DATE: May 12 2013, 3:04 pm / MOOD: Rejuvenated

Just spent a wonderful two nights with m`Lord in a jacuzzi suite at the Governor's Club in Madison.

*Happy sigh*

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Art for Pleasure's Sake? DATE: Jul 01 2013, 1:23 pm / MOOD: Nervous

As I have pointed out elsewhere, my various jobs and roles in life include photographer. For the most part, I have devoted my public gallery here to artistic photographs. Last night I posted these pictures of Rose there:

http://mydungeonspace.com/Empress_Josephine/pic/90998/

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/90997.jpg

Are these artistic, or am I just being doubly self-indulgent?

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My Submission DATE: Jul 10 2013, 5:17 pm / MOOD: N/a

In his recent blog, my exhausted Lord called upon Casey, Rose, and me "to blog more about the" wonderful long holiday weekend we all just spent together. This is my submission.

M`Lord failed to mention at least one significant aspect of the weekend. We have an established hierarchy when we get together, with m`Lord at the top, then me second, then Casey, and Rose at the bottom. This hierarchy controls various things from sexual favors to household chores.

I have written previously about my recent explorations of submission to women. Last weekend, I asked m`Lord if I could spend some time on the bottom of the hierarchy. He allowed this on the condition that if it was to be at all, then it must be for the whole weekend. I agreed.

My "lowly" position is reflected in the photos of the weekend m`Lord has posted, which are linked from his blog, in the series of pictures of me making love to Casey and Rose from underneath. Both warrant full presentation here, not just because they are lovely photographs, but also because m`Lord expects us to use this site for exhibitionism, and these series illustrate my emerging desires to submit to more women.

I love the way the series from July 6 begins with me looking adoringly at Rose, despite my compromised position.

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/91219.jpg

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/91218.jpg

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/91217.jpg

I hope you can see how it then ends with me obviously straining to fill her with ecstacy (which, as I recall, I'm pretty sure I did).

Speaking of ecstacy, watch Casey's right hand in this series with her:

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/91233.jpg

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/91230.jpg

http://mydungeonspace.com/gallery/imgfldr/91228.jpg

I did not see this at the time but, reviewing these photos after m`Lord posted them, I was pleased to recognize these physical manifestations of the pleasure Casey got from this.

I'm hoping to spend this coming weekend with them all again. I'm not sure what position I'll take in our hierarchy, but it's good to know I'm comfortable in any circumstance.

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In putting this together, I noted that the last site reduced all these to photos to a maximum of 500px. Also, forgive me for leaving the old site’s photo URLs in, but it helped me keep things straight. Beyond all that, I hope you enjoyed this and will leave a comment.