To better understand why my ladies and I are here, I invite you to read my blogs from the first adult social site we joined together, the now defunct, late great MyDungoenSpace.com.

Extending Invitations
DATE: Apr 10 2012, 2:41 pm / MOOD: Mischievous

Alright. I have looked around and like it here; the set up is fine and the people great. So I have invited a pair of my IRL playmates to come join the fun. I hope you will all help me make them feel welcome when they arrive.

Why I am Here
DATE: Apr 22 2012, 11:59 am / MOOD: Pleased

I must admit that few members of MyDungeonSpace will care why I joined this site. Some who interact with me here, however, possibly will, so I offer the following excerpt from my current profile:

I arrived here by invitation of my dear old friend, belle. Once here, I appreciated this site's potential for expanding my real-life BDSM relationships into cyberspace. Previous attempts at this met with limited success, mostly because of other sites' unnecessarily onerous policies and procedures. MyDungeonSpace's user-friendly simplicity and wonderful member interactions, on the other hand, seem wonderfully suited to melding real-life and virtual BDSM activities.

To that end, I have had my two real-life playmates, Josie and Casey, join here as well. Under my guidance, they will not just share their BDSM experiences online, but incorporate this virtual world into our relationship in order to experience things that real-life practicalities do not allow. I hope many of you will chose to join in this new venture, at least as observers, or perhaps as active participants.

The "real life practicalities" include the fact that Josie, Casey, and I are all in professions for which public knowledge of our lifestyle, especially Josie and Casey's unconventional love, would almost surely produce detrimental complications. Yet we all have exhibitionist yearnings to some degree or another. We can act upon some of those yearnings here, among people who will not take offense. An example of what I mean by this can be found at my profile today, where I have posted photos of Casey from time we spent together this weekend.

I look forward to becoming increasingly involved here. If anyone thinks the approach we are taking and the expectations I have expressed will not fit neatly into this site, please explain to me where I'm confused. Thank you.

Redecorating
DATE: May 20 2012, 6:53 pm / MOOD: Thankful

I've made some changes and additions to my profile page, if anyone wants to stop by and have a look. If you do, let me know what you think. Thanks!

A Game We Played
DATE: Aug 13 2012, 1:46 pm / MOOD: Amused

A GAME WE PLAYED

I've had the pleasure, over the past two weekends, of keeping company with two of my beauties: Josie and Rose. We did all kinds of fun things both in and out of bed, including a day at the Wisconsin State Fair. This past weekend, however, was cool and rainy, so we had to find ways to amuse ourselves fully indoors. We managed.

On Saturday morning we played a game to determine the sexual hierarchy for the weekend. Rose is a natural submissive, and Josie likes to dominate other women. I need not explain to the readers at this site that each position has its inherent advantages and disadvantages. I thought it only sporting, therefore, if both women had an opportunity to switch their usual roles.

I devised a game to determine which woman would dominate the other for the remainder of the weekend. Each woman would have an unimpeded opportunity to make the other orgasm by cunnilingus. Whoever could do it faster or, put the other way, could resist coming longest, would have the other one as her slave from the end of the game until we all parted Sunday night.

First, I tied their hands behind their backs and lashed their calves to their thighs. I did this to make it difficult for them to interfere with someone giving them oral sex. I then placed them in an open area of carpeted floor with Rose on her back and Josie with her mouth at Rose's crotch. I used the stopwatch on my phone to time how long it took Josie to make Rose come. It took 3 minutes and 47 seconds.

I then switched their positions. I don't know the exact amount of time it took the less experienced Rose to bring Josie to climax. I stopped watching the stopwatch after the four minute mark, by which time Rose had lost, and used my phone instead to take photos like this one showing how I'd arranged them.

I'd guess it was almost a total of ten minutes before Josie started coming, as she is here.

So the women ended up in their natural roles, with Josie as Mistress and Rose as her slave. I now wonder if Rose purposely "threw" the contest to remain in her accustomed role. Next time we play, I'll either have to make the prize for winning more appealing or the consequence for losing more severe, so that she'll have greater motivation to win!

 The Games We Play
DATE: Aug 23 2012, 3:01 pm / MOOD: Contemplative

PART I: Game Over?

This may be the last blog of this sort that I post here. When I joined MyDungeonSpace over four months ago, I explained why I had done so. In short, it was to expand my then two real-life BDSM relationships into cyberspace.

The reason for this is that Josie, Casey and I are all in professions for which public knowledge of our avante-garde lifestyles would at best be uncomfortable, and potentially career-ending. This limited certain activities, those with an exhibitionist bend, that interested us all none the less. MyDungeonSpace's user-friendly simplicity, wonderful member interactions, and open-minded acceptance proved itself wonderfully suited to melding real-life and virtual BDSM activities in a way that allowed us to satisfy some of these urges. To that end, I had Josie and Casey join as well and, under my guidance, share their BDSM experiences online to incorporate this virtual world into our relationship in order to experience things that real-life practicalities do not allow. Over the past several months, we have each posted several blogs, describing in words and showing with photographs some of our romantic exploits. Further, having added Rose to our "family," she likewise began posting such blogs of her own.

Perhaps MyDungeonSpace is just too safe of a venue, or perhaps our desires to "expose ourselves" to others were too easily satisfied. When all four of us were together this past weekend, we all agreed that we no longer find much thrill in it. We also noted that the response to these blogs has lessened, making the whole exercise feel increasingly narcissistic. For all these reasons, we have lost much of the motivation to post these sorts of blogs. So, for anyone who cares, we apologize if you see far fewer, if any, of the sorts of blogs and photos we have posted in the past. In any event, we would like to thank all of you who read and commented on them in the past.

To mark the passing of this phase in our involvement at MyDungeonSpace, I offer a picture showing all four of us which I took last weekend which I rather like.

More pictures from last weekend can be found in the gallery folder labeled "JCandR 81812 ."

PART II: A New Game

In response to a comment regarding my last blog, I promised to describe a game we played when all three of my ladies visited me last weekend. It all goes back to a mistake I made early this year when I donated some money to a political campaign. Ever since, and presumably continuing from now until November, I get at least a half-dozen, and often more, calls from a particular party and its local and national candidates seeking my "support," financial or otherwise.

Starting last Saturday morning, whenever caller-ID suggested an incoming call was from one of these, I would have one of the ladies answer the phone. The rest of us would then try to distract her sexually, including with oral sex intent upon making her orgasm. The object of the game was to see which of them could go the longest engaging the person on the phone in conversation without either coming or becoming so nonsensical or incoherent that the caller hung up. Casey won.

I think next time we're together I'll try a new game. Instead of answering anonymous telemarketers, I'll have each lady call a friend, and then try the same thing. In this case, I imagine the race will be to see who can go the longest before hanging up out of fear that the person on the other end will figure out what is happening. I'll make sure the reward for winning or, more likely, the consequence for losing, is significant enough to inspire them each to push themselves as far as they can manage. Who knows, the results of such a contest might even be worth another blog.

Updated Updates
DATE: Aug 30 2012, 1:03 pm / MOOD: Grateful

This was my original "About Me" here:

I arrived here by invitation of my dear old friend, belle. Once here, I appreciated this site's potential for expanding my real-life BDSM relationships into cyberspace. Previous attempts at this met with limited success, mostly because of other sites' unnecessarily onerous policies and procedures. MyDungeonSpace's user-friendly simplicity and wonderful member interactions, on the other hand, seem wonderfully suited to melding real-life and virtual BDSM activities.

To that end, I have had my two real-life playmates, Josie and Casey, join here as well. Under my guidance, they will not just share their BDSM experiences online, but incorporate this virtual world into our relationship in order to experience things that real-life practicalities do not allow. I hope many of you will chose to join in this new venture, at least as observers, or perhaps as active participants.

Here is my updated "About Me," adding what has happened since I joined MyDungeonSpace:

I arrived here by invitation of my dear old friend, belle. Once here, I appreciated this site's potential for expanding my real-life BDSM relationships into cyberspace. Previous attempts at this had met with limited success, mostly because of other sites' unnecessarily onerous policies and procedures. MyDungeonSpace's user-friendly simplicity and wonderful member interactions, on the other hand, immediately proved themselves wonderfully suited to melding real-life and virtual BDSM activities.

To that end, I had my two longtime real-life playmates, Josie and Casey, join here as well. Under my guidance, they have revealed some of their erotic and BDSM experiences here, incorporating this virtual world into our relationship in order to experience things that real-life practicalities do not allow. We appreciate the many of you who have chosen to join in this new venture, at least as observers, if not active participants.

Meanwhile, once settled in here, I had the profound good fortune to get to know Rose. She soon became part of our polyamorous "family." How this came to pass in chronicled in our blogs

I fully expect MyDungeonSpace to remain part of the lifestyle the four of us now share. Exactly what role it will play is unclear, however, so I view it as an adventure waiting to unfold. In any event, we hope in one way or another you will come share in that adventure!

I have now updated the other areas of my profile, and have instructed Josie, Casey, and Rose to update their MyDungeonSpace profiles as well Please stop by some time and tell us what you think. Thank you.

Sexual Mentoring
DATE: Sep 23 2012, 5:08 pm / MOOD: Full of life

I had the pleasure -- indeed, multiple pleasures -- of spending the weekend with with my beautiful Josie and our new pet Rose.

The weather was not very nice, especially yesterday, so we spent much of the time in bed. It was there that I discovered another advantage of polyamory. It facilitates the proliferation of advanced sexual practices.

Rose is only 19. Josie is a bit older, and thereby considerably more experienced. She took advantage of the time we spent making love this weekend to share the benefits of some of that experience with our young partner.

Josie and I are both educators. It was interesting to watch her instinctively apply many of the principles of good pedagogy to teaching Rose some tricks to good sex. I even found her professionalism reflected in the series of pictures I managed to snap with my phone while Josie gave Rosie a lesson on how to "deep throat."

Josie began with what teachers call a "formative assessment," that is, a pre-test to find out how much the student already knows. You can see Josie at the left hand edge of this picture as she assesses Rose's innate abilities.

One of the most effective teaching techniques is called "modeling." Rather that simply telling students what they are expected to do on a project or exam, the teacher actually demonstrates the skills the students are expected to master. Here we see Josie engaging in some first class modeling:

That completed, it is time for the students to try some "guided practice" of the skills being taught. Note how Josie observes her pupil directly as she works on the assigned exercise.

Of course, even the best students need encouragement at times. A good teacher knows when to push a student beyond her "comfort zone"; that is where the most important learning occurs. In this case, Josie could practice this principle quite literally, as we catch her doing here with her helping hand on the back of Rose's neck.

I must say, the lesson went very well for all involved. If you want to see the entire class period, you will find many more pictures in this folder of my public gallery.

Teachers have been getting a bad rap of late, but let us give credit where credit is due. Josie demonstrated all the "best practices" of education this weekend. She deserves all the praise you can give her.

Like Old Times
DATE: Oct 15 2012, 12:43 am / MOOD: Contemplative

With Rose spending the weekend in Chicago studying for mid-terms, I spent the rainy weekend with Josie and Casey. Josie and I have been lovers, and her sister Casey our slave, on-and-off for over thirty years. We spent the weekend giddy with nostalgia.

WE also had some great fun in and out of bed. As I sometimes do, I photographed one of our adventures. I again only had my phone handy and it doesn't have a flash, so the photos are a bit dark, but I think you may still find them of interest. Here is what my ladies were doing when I first thought to start photographing them:

They soon switched places, with Casey sliding under Josie, to let her settle on her tongue.

I often have my lovers masturbate while I watch. In this case, however, Casey started to do it spontaneously because of how being together had us all feeling.

I took dozens of pictures, and only after reviewing them later with Casey discovered that I had recorded her self-inflicted orgasm. This is about where it started:

And here is the climax:

Apparently, that's about when Josephine came, too. I wish I had focused less on taking pictures and more on them.

Quickly catching their breaths, the girls again changed places.

Finally, it was my turn.

As you may have gathered, these are just a few of the many photos I took. If you are interested, you will find the rest in this folder of my public gallery.

Pushing the Envelope
DATE: Nov 12 2012, 8:03 pm / MOOD: Guilty

My longtime lovers, Josie and Casey, and I are all in professions for which public knowledge of our avante-garde lifestyles would at best be uncomfortable, and potentially career-ending. This limited certain activities, those with an exhibitionist bend, that interested us all none the less. MyDungeonSpace's user-friendly simplicity, wonderful member interactions, and open-minded acceptance proved itself wonderfully suited to melding real-life and virtual BDSM activities in a way that allowed us to satisfy some of these urges. I had Josie and Casey join as well and, under my guidance, share their BDSM experiences online to incorporate this virtual world into our relationship in order to experience things that real-life practicalities do not allow.

To that end, I got in the habit of posting photos of them in explicit situations, albeit with their faces obscured, and requiring them to blog about it. As explained in a prior blog of mine, however, we had stopped doing that when it quickly became an easy and comfortable exercise. Since then, however, we have heard from several people suggesting that we continue this exercise, in part because several people enjoyed these blogs, and in part encouraging us to see where it might ultimately lead.

Thus, this past Saturday, I posted a set of photos of Josie in which her face is fairly recognizable, such as here:

I just left her a message telling her to come see these photos and post a blog about how it feels to have herself so explicitly shown. I hope you look forward to her reaction as much as I do.

MyDungeonSpace: A Powerful Influence
DATE: Dec 27 2012, 9:34 am / MOOD: Impressed

Augustus and Josephine are not the true first names of myself and my consort. We adopted these aliases when we joined MyDungeonSpace [hereinafter "MDS"] to help decrease the chance that what we revealed here could affect our professional lives. Doing so, however, has affected us in another interesting way.

We have started actually calling each other by these names. Our slaves Casey and Rose likewise now refer to us this way. Indeed, Rose knew me first as Augustus, and only learned my real name when we decided to meet in the real world. She tells me she still thinks of us as Augustus and Josephine, and possibly always will.

I chose Augustus because of its imperial connotations and a certain relationship to my real name. Ideally, my consort should have taken the name Livia, but for reasons similar to mine she preferred Josephine. I had already joined MDS as Augustus, and I disdained the idea of taking the name Napoleon. We thus created the regal anachronism that has served us well here and, it turns out, in our home life, too.

Becoming Augustus and Josephine here, and increasingly in our real life relationships, has added a majestic element to our style of domination. (Again, Casey notices this more than Rose, who came to our beds having first encountered us in our imperial visages at MDS.) Please do not misunderstand; I'm not referring to roleplaying. We don't do that, at least not as Josephine and Augustus. Rather, using these names has affected all of our attitudes. To put it briefly, this inadvertent adoption of these royal personae has added an aristocratic elegance to how we treat our slaves and, in return, how they serve us.

As I have explained previously, Josephine, Casey and I originally came to MDS to explore exhibitionist tendencies we had long recognized but could seldom practice. While still an important part of what we do here, it pales compared to other impacts MDS has had on our relationship. Of course, the far most significant and wonderful of these is the addition of Rose to our polyamorous family. I do not lightly overlook, however, how becoming Augustus and Josephine here has influenced our conduct in the real world. Quite possibly, joining MDS last March will turn out to be one of the most significant events of this era of my life. No one is more surprised than me.

A Handy Container
DATE: Jan 13 2013, 10:01 pm / MOOD: Amused

Casey and I went to a Packers Party last night. While the game was a disappointment, the evening was not. I spent the night at her house.

Today, among other strenuous activities, I helped her take down her Christmas decorations. She had purchased a large, wheeled, nylon bag in which to store her new Christmas tree. As I looked at this thing, I could imagine all sorts of better uses for it.

It is almost six feet long and NOT airtight. The wheels provide an added convenience. Even a small lock through the double zipper pulls would make it nearly impossible for anyone to open from the inside.

Along with this bag, I have posted some additional photos of Casey in my gallery.

Opening Up
DATE: Jan 27 2013, 10:48 pm / MOOD: Naughty

As explained in this earlier blog, and this response to it, Josie, Casey, and I have become much more nonchalant about openly displaying photographs of ourselves here. Up until now, in the photographs of Josie and Casey, as well as Rose, displayed on my profile, they always had closed eyes, making them less recognizable. I have just redecorated my profile page, using photos of them with their eyes open, by which I can share (and show off) how lovely they are.

As I have also explained before, Josie, Casey, and I came here to explore exhibitionist yearnings. Our approach seems to be working. Thank you for indulging us!

Some Like it Hot
DATE: Jun 18 2013, 1:13 pm / MOOD: Hot

Someone recently wrote in response to one of Rose's blogs that she wanted "to see more pics" of Rose and my "fun times."

It just so happened that circumstances yesterday permit me to comply.

Yesterday was unseasonably hot. Rose and I ended up spending the afternoon taking advantage of the weather. I only had my phone handy to take photos, but I got a few good shots of some of our activities.

To help Rose cool down, in more ways than one, I used ice. Unfortunately, because of the intimacy of the way I used it, I only managed one picture of that.

I will leave it to your imaginations as to what else I did with the bucket of ice cubes we brought to bed with us.

Great Holiday Weekend!
DATE: Jul 08 2013, 11:33 am / MOOD: Exhausted

I hosted Josie, Casey, and Rose for the four day holiday weekend.

I must admit, as I get close to 50, that they wore me out.

It was well worth it.

I did have the energy to post two new folders of photos in my gallery.

I'll leave it to the girls (in fact, I'll require them) to blog more about the weekend.

I'm grabbing a book and heading outside to fall asleep under my covered swing.

One More Round
DATE: Aug 26 2013, 2:38 pm / MOOD: Refreshed

I continue to get compliments for the photos I post publicly, so I went ahead and put up another set from our trip to Door County this weekend. I'm not sure how much more I'll do that. It all seems a bit redundant.

On the other hand, I do plan to continue the set of stories called "Prelude to a Kiss." I posted the latest this afternoon.

Any feedback anyone may have will be appreciated, especially on the topic of whether I should keep posting photos of the sort I put in my public gallery. Thank you!

The Big Five-Oh!
DATE: Sep 05 2013, 4:59 pm / MOOD: Happy

I turn 50 years old today.

It's been a great half-century, and I'm looking forward to this next one!

I Have Decided Where We Are Going
DATE: Nov 03 2013, 10:58 am / MOOD: Sad

At the suggestion of a friend, I joined MyDungeonSpace almost two years ago. Once here, I appreciated this site's potential for expanding my real-life BDSM relationships into cyberspace. MyDungeonSpace's user-friendly simplicity and wonderful member interactions immediately proved themselves wonderfully suited to melding real-life and virtual BDSM activities.

To that end, I had my two longtime real-life playmates, Josie and Casey, join here as well. Under my guidance, they revealed some of their erotic and BDSM experiences here, incorporating this virtual world into our relationship in order to experience things, primarily of an exhibitionist nature, that real-life practicalities would not allow. We appreciated the many here at MyDungeonSpace who chose to join in that venture, at least as observers, if not active participants.

Meanwhile, once settled in at MyDungeonSpace, I had the profound good fortune to get to know Rose. She soon became part of our polyamorous "family." How this came to pass was chronicled in our blogs here.

I fully expected MyDungeonSpace to remain part of the lifestyle the four of us now share for a very long time. Regrettably, the site soon will close. Upon leaning this, I looked around for a suitable replacement and was very pleased to discover BDSMfriendBOOK. Josie, Casey, Rose, and I have now made BDSMfriendBOOK our online playground. Like MyDungeonSpace, BDSMfriendBOOK's user-friendliness and broad member interactions promise many opportunities for us to explore, exhibit, and share our unique relationships. We hope you will come share in that adventure!