From the age of 14 I began experimenting wearing ladies knickers and tights, in fact the very first time I ever orgasm was wearing a pair of tights. It developed over the years to fully cross-dressing; the urge to masturbate went away and was replaced with the feelings that I should have been born female.

I labelled myself transgendered for years seeking help from doctors and taking female hormones bought from the internet. During this time I found an abundance of men happy to fuck me, they all claimed to be straight males. I think they were more confused than me during this time of my life.

It took till I was 42 years old to move on from my transgendered life style, I do still all ways wear female knickers, tights and stockings. She is happy buying me female lingerie when we are out in town.  I have only ever told my wife of the transgender lifestyle and she has fully accepted it as part of me.

Around four years ago we started experimenting with chastity at first I was locked for a day or two; I’m now locked all the time which includes while at work or even trips to the doctors, she holds the only key to my metal cage.

Our chastity is all about her taking control in the bed room and of course controlling my ability to orgasm. There are no tasks to complete or orders to obey for me to earn release, everything relies on her whims.

In bed she takes what she needs, very rarely will she allow me to orgasm, I’m never allowed to cum in her. I love being abused this way, being used and taken whenever she likes. She chose a chastity device which was easy for her to take off and fit, so she is fully able to unlock me, use me and then replace the cage.

She gets sex how she likes it and whenever she wants it; I’m classed as a living dildo having no interest in sharing orgasms during her sex.