I get messages from time to time from people offering to "strip me naked, tie me to the bed" and do things to me, along with the "I'll stick plugs in all your holes and fill your mouth with cum" and frankly, it turns me off.  To me this is the "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" style of play that frankly offers no form of eroticism or enjoyment.

So what do I like?  First of all, I like the idea of being manhandled--grabbed, threatened, having my arms forced up behind me, being bound and gagged.  Being felt up in the process.  However my captor should not feel any need to tear my clothes or go out of his way to expose me (in fact to me, the ideal "kidnapper" prefers to see me with my clothes on!)  There's no tying me to the bed--though I might be tied up lying on one, or tied to a chair, or a pole; my kidnapper(s) would in fact tie me in many different positions, now and then fondling me, briefly exposing my breasts, but never totally undressing me or doing more than getting little "peeks".  I am a toy, to be played with and enjoyed slowly, not stripped, fucked, and forgotten about.

Sex, of course, plays into my fantasies, and having my captor force me to give him head--a little or a lot--is a big part of it, along with him eventually forcing me to undress, tying me, and using me sexually.  He never has to resort to force--no slapping, beating (though he might pull my hair), nothing more than his mere dominating presence, to get me to concede.  He doesn't want me to enjoy this; he wants to hear me cry, to see the dismay on my face.  But at the same time he has no desire to physically injure me.  For me the erotic thrill comes from the joy he gets from dominating me.

And that's how it is!