Nearly every woman who is asked reports severe disappointment with her first sexual experience with a man. "It was all over in seconds", "He didn't seem to care about my pleasure", "It put me off to be honest".

These women deserve better.

About a year ago, a young woman who was a former student of mine asked for my help. Nearly all her friends had lost their virginity (though none was very enthuiastic about the experience) and she had not. She wanted her "first time" to be special. She told me she had discussed the matter with her mother and they had agreed that her partner should have particular qualities; he should be experienced, care about her and not just his own pleasure and be sexy. They had agreed that I was the perfect candidate. Despite my surprise - I was after all 35 years older than her - I had to admit that she deserved this "special" first time.

After I had given her my initial help, I introduced her to many other pleasures. As a result of her positive experience, she asked me if I would give similar help to some of her friends and so it is that I find myself being called upon by a succession of young women to give them that special first time. If you are reading this and recognise the feelings that impelled these girls to approach me, do not hesitate to contact me. I am committed to making sure that no young woman should be disappointed with her first time.