I want to say here and now that meeting women and couples isn't always easy.  Even though there are so many ways to make connections, I have found over the many years I have been doing this, that most are from word of mouth, and even co-workers.  Don't misunderstand, I have made connections from places like craigslist, dating sights!  Men, there are real women out there, both single and married who are looking for a physical relationship.  

I personally like to get to know the woman or couple first, and I like going out for lunch, diner, or just even drinks to get to know them first.  Sometimes it has taken several meetings before it is taken to the next level, and sometimes it happens the very first meeting.  I prefer married women, but I have been with single women over the years too.   Usually married women aren't looking to change there marital status, and it is for sex only.  Most couples though tend to be that the husband wants to see his wife being taken by anoher man.  Don't get me wrong!  There are a few out there that tell there husbands they want to try another man.  

About  15 years ago, I gave the swinging lifestyle up, and became a single woman man with my wife.  I was recomited to her and I actually only wanted her for the first time in our marrage.  Nothing really changed sexually with her and I, because our sex life has always been good, I guess I was wanting veriety and even more sex than my wife was willing to do.  More about my wife in another blog.  

After being a one woman man, things got bad in our marrage, and after a year of arguing, and many months of sexless nights, I moved out.   I rented an apartment and moved in by myself.  After a month or so, and weekly counceling, with no progress, I was tired of masturbating and one night I posted on a half dozen dating sights.  A lot of bogus emails and fakes is all I got, until I got an email from a bondage web sight I had posted on.  One email to another led to meeting her, and I getting together.  This woman, (Sharon) was completely into domination and I had NO problem with her dominating me!!  

Sharon was a 5'-9" tall, 145lbs., Brown hair, and wore a 36D bra.  Sharon was divorced and had been for a couple years, and she had been in this lifestyle for years.  Her husband had been a sub to her and she actually had another man who lived with her for nearly a year before they parted.   She said she had interviewed a couple men before me, and when I interviewed, (had sex) with Sharon, she kept me tied to her bed for nearly 26 hours.  All I could say was, WOW!!  Talk about a sex addict!!  She was on me most of the time, mainly  with my face between her legs.  I must have passed her test, because I moved in with her and whenever I got home, I was ordered not to wear any clothes. Sharon and I hit it off, and she had other guys that she was also seeing.  

Eventually, Sharon and I parted ways and I saw her a few years ago, and she was married to this nerdy looking guy.  I guess he had a big dick, if I knew Sharon.  

When I went back with my wife, for nearly two years I stayed true to her, but that soon eneded when I began looking through the craigslist and after several trys, I finally found someone who actually was real.  It was a husband and wife looking for a 3-some.  They were both a litle older than me at that time, and after a couple of meetings, went to there place and we had fun!  I really enjoyed sharing his wife, and after that, I found a couple others to play with.  

Over the years I have found a few single or married women looking for fun.  Many of the married ones tend to be on the larger size, but I laso noticed that they tend to be the horniest too!  If you're interested in finding women, don't let your weight standards stop you.  A women I hooked up with after my divorce from my first wife was a extremly horney, AND VERY large! She probably weighed close to 280lbs.  Funny thing was, she liked to ride the. "Longstroke"  At first I wasn't sure if I could even get an erection with her, but I had no problem.  Actually, she was quite good in bed, dispite her size.  So, never say never to some women, you might find out that they are pretty damn good in the bed!