Wifeswapping is not for everyone, and it isn't done with everyone either. When you develop a relationship to another couple, and sex becomes a part of that relationship, things can become quite relaxed between the couples: Relaxed enough to lead to total trust and confidence between all parties.

There's a couple we spend a lot of time with, in and out of bed. We've had vacations together, shop together, do a lot of things together. This has been taking place several years now.  At this point wifeswapping can also take on new meanings, not just the occasional group sex / swap partners experiences.

The swaps can become longer, and take on a new kind of a meaning. With this great, lovely couple, we have built a rock solid trust and confidence. They know us, we know them. I know him, he knows me. His wife knows my wife and vice versa. My wife has spent weekends with them when I was travelling for work. I was living with them a weekend when my wife went to see her relatives. His wife has spent numerous days alone with us at our home, and sometimes he has been our guest alone too. The point is, we know each other really well, and enjoy the company - and sex of course.

 This year we tried taking vacations with each others partners for example. He took my wife with him to Barbados for two weeks, and I went to the Alps with his wife. It was exciting and fun for all! We were like newlyweds with his wife, and didn't spend much time skiing..too busy in the sack! Previous sexual experiences were much more brief, and although they were fun, this was much more intimate. We got to know each other sexually and otherwise. More like dating a new girlfriend, or boyfriend for her, and experimenting on things. We talked about what our partners were like, what they liked, and it encouraged both to try also new things, in and out of the bed.

My wife said the same about her trip, she had been nervous, but also excited. He & she had fucked day-in, day-out like bunnies, and the whole thing was like "nw boyfriend" experience for her. Obviously they had sex many times together before, but now they were alone, and it was much more intimate...just as it was for his wife and me. On one night they had shared their intimacy with another man, having a threesome. This had been my wife's idea! Main thing was they had a great time, and so did we. 

We are all very similar people, openminded, same age, confident and looks-wise quite on the same level. Thiskind of a total swap takes confidence and trust. I knew he'd be good to my wife, and he trusted I'd be a gentleman to his. All went well, which was a relief, and left us with the thought that we can do this another time too! As a foursome, we already spent some weekends travelling together, and it was nice to see how much closer our group got through this experience. Very little jealousy...there's always some, but it's more the teasing kind.

Now as we traveled together after the swap, it was even easier to act sexually totally freely with each other's partners. He was treating my wife like his own, and I did the same with his wife. The women did each other many times also, and his wife asked my wife to show her some things I had told her that my wife enjoys (like water masturbation, and a huge toy). My wife wanted a dp from us guys, apparently she tried it also with him on their Barbados vacation. After that his wife wanted to try the same! The women spent a lot of time in bed with each other, which led us to think that they need a girlfriend vacation of their own! Only problem is, as we are straight guys, where do we get women for that time - any volunteers out there?!?!