From Cathy:

The key to a good lasting love relationship between a woman and man is this:  Lots of great cock sucking.  You heard that right ladies.  Suck his cock as often and as well as you can.  Never wait for him to ask, and don't ask if he wants it, he ALWAYS wants it, so DO IT NOW.

What is often?  Never let a day go by without sucking him.  Do it first thing in the morning in case you don't get a chance later.  Ray sleeps soundly, and so I often start sucking him before he even wakes up.  Another good time is while he is shaving.  Just kneel on the floor between him and the bathroom mirror.  Or kneel down in the shower.  Or if you drive together in the morning suck him while he drives.  Or once in a while do them all, a morning with four BJs is a good morning.  Ray and I have a Valentine's day tradition -- a suck-a-thon!  His cock rarely leaves my mouth, except maybe to pee, or not even then (don't ask).

What is great? Depends on the man and his likes, but a few ideas are pretty universal.  One:  Deeper is better!  Learn to take him balls deep and practice holding your breath.  Its easier if you lean your head back so your mouth and throat are in line.  Try it upside down with your head hanging off the bed or a table.  And if he gets carried away and starts fucking your head too hard don't worry, you might vomit but you won't be injured.  Being skull fucked is an acquired taste, but most men don't do it too hard or too often and with Ray at least it is now part of our fun routine.  Two:  Variety is good.  Vary your technique.  Vary the mood, from warm and tender to wild and slutty to nasty and dangerous!  Dangerous can mean, let him tie you up and use a dental device to hold your mouth wide open.  Or instead tie him up and tease him mercilessly with just licks to the tip of his cock while you squeeze his balls a little TOO hard.  Three:  Pay attention to nearby real estate, like his balls and asshole.  Guys vary a lot about this so get to know him.  Ray likes my tongue up his ass and likes his balls pushed a little past their pain threshold.  I can delay his orgasm when I am deepthroating him by slapping his balls.  This is FUN and can go on a LONG TIME.  Four:  Make it available anywhere, anytime, so he comes to associate it with everything you do together.  We sit in the back of movie theaters (regular not porn) and I suck him there.  VERY FUN.  I have been under his desk while he interviews a job candidate.  EVEN FUNNER. Etc.  Five:  Finish what you start.  Make him cum!  And then swallow it!  Every time!  He can always get hard again if you need a good fuck and will last longer after haveing shot his first in your mouth -- at least Ray does.  Anyway you don't have to always have him shoot in your mouth, some guys like to shoot on your face, etc., but always use your hands or tongue to gather at leats a little and eat it, and make sure he sees this.  Ray likes me to open my mouth and show him the cum and then make a show of savoring it, swoshing it around in my mouth, and finally swallowing it.  But have no doubt, a guy who even once sees you hungrily lick his spilled seed off the floor will never ever forget you.

 OK, I could go onbut you get the idea.  Any questions, send me a message, or comment on this blog post, OK?

 -Cathy