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Watching and Appreciating changes in sexual attitudes.
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Hello my fellow FAPpers, I hope the New Year has been rewarding for all who deserve it. I'm not much of a blogger but I wanted to share an opionion with everyone and maybe even get some feedback in whatever form it serves it's purpose. I don't set out to offend anyone by any of my comments, I respect differenciality in all tastes of sexual preferences. I guess I grow frustrated these days when a large part of messeges being sent to me describe a wish by the authors to Cum on my face or any body part for that matter. Ewwww. Do males understand how disgusting their jizz can be sometimes? Sometimes I can tolerate having it on me so at least I know I am not a complete prude. I guess some men cannot figure out that not all women find satisfaction in getting sprayed in the face during the mans big moment. I respect the inquiry if I want your fluids showered all over me or not before it is just assumed. I personally think it's gross and more of a power play than sexual turn on. I love a man to be satisfied and as intensly possible, I will work my ass off to ensure a man gets to experience a bell ringer because let's face it most men put in alot of effort to physically please us and I value that effort being afforded to please me so I try to be as accomodating as I can with whatever my partner desires of me while he's coming. BUT give me choices before you simply nut on me like I'm enjoying the message your implying by grabbing and holding my head in place while you demean my self worth. Messages designed to make me have to feel bad for you to feel good are never a good idea. If you don't care how I will remember you by and if getting me off doesn't concern you then leave me be please....to be continued......
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Posted on : Feb 1, 2013
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Commented on Feb 18, 2016
I'm not a fan of doing it to a woman in person or online, so I totally get you. When I cum, I like it to go inside - preferably after I've eaten the woman to a thumping good orgasm first!
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Commented on Feb 22, 2013
Zieligerd thank you so much for your thoughts about this subject. Your English is fine but if it makes you more comfortable I just noticed your flag and I speak your language. Bellz
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Commented on Feb 21, 2013
woow,
a i think you have the answer to my sort of investigation and at the sane hoping to have a real like adventures hardcore adventure while doing this. I m a ok guy latley having a litlle troube to have som good sex so i had this like to find such as a internet sex expericne and everything you see you hafve to pay for and phat things like this enourmus photo data drawt my attention more than f.i. a not exhisstin internet sex date then bieng overblown bij the data in realnes of a part of the fotos on this site again finding the wish for the strange extreme experience. A i wanted it to be like 75 percent hardcore. so for example a masteress but no anal thing and no female or tr and no p&p but like al the other things wat normal is if you have a girlfriend who likes sex but for such a fantasie lets call like that then for maybe for 2 or 4 times whithout the intimiseci is like unreal for me. Ithink if man and girls womon were more like the same in sexual then it would be easy for me heir. Like you maybe ;a litlle more not girly like but more honoust what is dangerous if you are like in a normal invitement cuase for a little differet thought you be a slut for live and it does not even exist i think i have never seen or heard that you could say hi and have to say it in men thinking see a slut and say that you are gonne do like bully kids do with her and that the girl is going to like that but i now from experience that you can be in a relatienschip were for the most diffrent reasons your girlfriend would like that and for some is it then diffucult to do srange thing because you feel love I think that like you discrpe als wath the fuckis wrong witn some men has nothing to do with a fantasie or erotism is just like fighting or bullying or masking your own faults or just unload and to like damaged an other is for a man i think i have that feeling also like winning combat. I hope that me english is not to bad and you can make out of it something ....... i hope you can find here what you look for an other time i wil tuen in to your post becaues its getting late love you sweet dreammy batlle girl....
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Commented on Feb 6, 2013
See Mr CartoonGuy you get it,it's no fun if both parties aren't having fun. i understand the power thing and part of being truly powerful is an ability to show restraint.
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Commented on Feb 1, 2013
Communication is the key. I have had this talk with all my ex's. While I do enjoy the feeling of power it gives me to see my cum shoot all over my lover, I do know that for it to be "sex" all parties have to be having a good time, otherwise at best it is masturbation and at worst rape!
My last girlfreind hated the taste of cum, as well as the sensation of it anywhere near her face, I respected this and never pressed the matter, for this she was more than willing to listen and explore all of my other fantasies, while we did not get to all of them the respect I showed her allowed us to be more open to each other.
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Commented on Feb 1, 2013
EXACTLY! Thanks both of you for helping me refine my words....and I also wanted to know how other females feel about this particular subject....Do you enjoy it or just put up with it?......Does it feel demeaning to you?
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Commented on Feb 1, 2013
That is also my understanding of your blog, so people, don't message her saying you want to cum on her face or in her mouth, etc....It doesn't turn her on.....
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Commented on Feb 1, 2013
So your basically saying you don't put up with it in your real sex life so quit messaging you with the same attitudes?
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Commented on Feb 1, 2013
I know I probably confused some people with my wording but messages being sent to me is what I'm talking about while referring to my actual sexual beliefs in real life.....Hope that clarifies.... Bellz
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Commented on Feb 1, 2013
Good Blog today Bellz, I guess i'm a little confused though, so are you mainly talking about attitudes of people's messages to you or do you mean their attitudes during actual sexual encounters with you?
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Commented on Feb 1, 2013
Very well articulated Bellz, I personally think that some men honestly just assume that a woman enjoys all forms of submissiveness so he doesn't think twice about steering a situation into that final result. it's good information to ponder........
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