My desire is to always be ready to please my wife and give her mutiple orgasms, no matter how many or how frequently. I cannot always be ready please her if I cum, although she she tells me to cum inside her when she wants it. Often as not she tells me when to cum, but sometimes she does not and I withhold my orgasm so that my cock remains hard inside her. If I do this she can often have three, four and sometimes more orgasms this way and her love for me is so intense when this happens.

To avoid cumming I want to introduce her to me wearing a strapon, so that I can pleasure her as long as she likes. To keep my sexual energy high I want to stay aroused, but to avoid playing with myself and cumming by accident, I need to stop myself from masturbating. Over the past six years or so I have experimented with different chastity cages, starting with the Curve, which is the biggest. I thought I needed it to allow my cock to expand, but I found it tended to rub on the inside. I changed to the CB2000 which is shorter and liked it. Later I tried the CB3000 which is tighter and shorter still. It is quite hard to get on - I have to use a nylon stocking to pull my cock inside, once there it is very comfortable and secure.

I have found that the smaller and tighter the chastity cage, the better it is and more comfortable. Also people don't notice the hard bulge in my pants as much! So today I ordered the CB6000S, the smallest cage in this style. It is the narrowest cage and almost half the length of the Curve, reducing from 3 3/4 " to only 2 1/2 ". It will be tight and difficult to get in, especially as I can be thick and up to 6 " when erect. However, I am looking forward to being very restricted and almost completely unable to grow at all. I want to get used to sleeping with this cage on so I can start wearing it every day. Usually about the third or fourth day my cock really wants to escape, but my resolution is to work through this period and overcome this difficulty. If I can stay inside my small and tight cage for more than a week I will be on my way to long term chastity.

My long term hope is to lessen my need for erections and orgasms, and for my wife to enjoy and eventually prefer orgasming with a strapon. Of course she may still prefer my cock, in which case I will have to prevent myself from cumming inside her, even though I will ache with desire to explode. When she does not desire orgasms for a few days, with some encouragement she can milk me to relief the pressure. She has often enjoyed telling me to masterubate and ejaculate in front of her, so she should find watching my tiny cock leak semen when locked in a cage quite entertaining! Eventually my joy of sex with my wife will become purely watching her riding me and having orgasm after orgasm as long as she wants, without any limitations.