Wives who eventually cheat on their husbands do so for one of two possible reasons, either  just for sex or because of a lack of intimacy in their marriage. If your wife is contemplating an affair, which is different in a radical way from a one night stand, establishing a cuckold relationship with your wife is almost certain to destroy your marriage.  A cuckold relationship is suppose to enhance an already ongoing intimate relationship between husband and wife. If you allow your intimacy starved wife to have sex with other men, she will find the intimacy she lacks in someone else , and once she no longer needs you for  emotional support  your left with providing either sexual needs or pure monetary support. You wouldnt be considering a cuckold relationship in the first place if you were a viable sex partner. Most cuckolds suffer from penis envy and are either victims of a small cock or premature ejaculation. Gor some of us unlucky ones, we suffer from both maladies. So it stands to reason that her paramour will be a much better provider of her sexual needs as well as being her new relationship partner. That leaves you as the person  who financially supports you. She will have no desire or need to have sex with you and she wont share her innermost thoughts with you. She doesnt have to, because you wanted her to cuckold you, she now has  no need for you. 

The simple solution is that cuckolding can work and work well when it supports an ongoing emotional relationship you already have with your wife. the only real need she has is for the kind of satisfying sex you arent capable of providing. its the perfect scenario for convincing your wife that she desrves the kind of sexual pleasure you cant give her, but want her to have.  Once she understands that its purely about sex and nothing else, you will eventually after some hard work on your part  convince her that you are not just ok with the idea of her having exciting sex , but its something you want even more badly than she does. Once the decision is made and carried out, your wife will be able to discuss her sexual adventures with you and share all, aspects of it. Why?, because you already have an intimate relationship that wont be threatened by her just having sex and you can discuss her pleasures in a wway that brings you even closer together

Now, im not suggesting that a sexual relationship can never lead to one of intimacy and thus cause some strife in the marriage. You may need certain rules in your cuckolding relationship. Rules which are intended to reduce the risk of your wife falling in love with her paramour or becoming intimate beyond just sex. This part isnt as easy as it sounds. women are complicated creatures. they have emotional needs we dont fully understand. they are vulnerable in a sexual relationship to falling in love with their new partner. You need to know your spouse and know her emotional triggers. In my case, i know that allowing my wife to kiss her partner ina  a passionate way, will cause certain reactions in her that may go beyond just sex. So kissing is not allowed while engaging in sex. I also know that body to body contact causes an even greater reaction in her and an increased risk of intimacy. So, missionary position is out of bounds. I prefer her to engage in doggystyle. Its the only pure form of sex without intimacy. I also allow girl on top or side straddling when they are not face to face. if she goes for cowgirl. i request she do it backwards, so she isnt looking at him while she begins to climax. the temptation to drop her head  down to his  runs the risk of real intimacy and remember, the only cuckold relationship that enhances and doesnt destroy a marriage is one based on sex and sex alone.

Even if you follow all these rules , their is no guarantee that things will turn out exactly as planned. Cuckolding is a risky venture, but when its done right, the satisfaction and eroticism you get by letting and watching her being fucked in ways you can only wish that you were capable of is mind blowing. There are hundreds of other considerations that come in to play, but those will have to wait for  future articles. Good luck on your cuckolding adventures