I am of mixed feelings when it comes to women. I'm in my third marriage, and it isn't happy. So ya can understand. I know that every time I got married I had my entire heart in it, and planned on staying that way forever. My intentions were pure, it was the women involved who seemed to have different motives. Now that I am 42 and maybe (just maybe), finally growing up a little, I can look at it from a clearer perspective and I think I put romanticism and ideals and dreams in front of reality. I was juggling five or six women at a time when I married my second and then, current wives, and the first time, I was in the depths of loneliness.  The reality? Women are shallow. Women want money. Women get married for different reasons than men do. But I digress before I even get started.

Lust.

I think it is awesome when grown men can come together in some kind of forum (maybe impossible prior to the internet) and express their feelings about lust. If something is distasteful or very anti-lustful to some, they can simply ignore it and pursue what they do enjoy. For me, anything in that "bondage" vein is a turn off, so I can, well, turn it off. It's up to me. But in this kind of forum, we can post photographs of what appeals to our eyes. Without even realizing it, we find common ground and bond with other guys in a sexual sense. Some guys use a picture of their own hard penis as their avatar. I think that is fantastic. I find that so cool because that's really what its all about. On this site we can unashamedly put up a pic of our big boner and others understand. Could you guys imagine EVER showing your boners to the guys at work? Of course not, goes without saying. I sure can't imagine that in the rigid environment I work in. The truth is, though, that I enjoy bonding with guys who can say "these pics make me really hard", etc. It feels good to not be afraid of that.

So what does make us hard? Well, I guess I better just speak for myself. I most enjoy what is the hardest to find: photography without airbrushing. Photography of young beauties, displaying their fresh bodies with a big smile on their face and that twinkle of mishchief in their eyes. And I love the natural.

I am not turned off by body hair on a beautiful girl or young woman. I like to see everything, as if I were viewing them in person. Playboy has become layouts of paintings. And most of the models in porn today look manufactured. What I prefer is real girls. Natural girls. Pregnant women too.

Celebrities

Like most other dudes, I love to lust over the gorgeous women in the celebrity world. But at the same time, I realize something else, too...just because they are famous doesn't mean theyare any MORE beautiful than babes who are not. I know some women and girls that quite simply are every single bit as beautiful and hot as any actress or model. Period.

I'm rambling. But what i really want to say is lets get talking. Let's get close. Get out those boners and let's get comfortable.

John