Will you even finish reading this?  Will you give up, needing immediate satisfaction, or are you the type who will hang on and see where it ends up.  Just where will it go.  If you think that I know where my blog posts are going to go, then your sorely mistaken. 

I'd love a good blowjob right now, and I enjoy reciprocating on my partner.  Having her moan, bringing her right to the edge, then stopping, making her wait for it, not for some crazy control reason, because it will feel better when they finally orgasm.  

Orgasms feel good don't they?  Whats the best orgasm you ever had?  Was it a quickie or a long drawn out one?  Did it build and build?  Was it the second or third, maybe it took a couple till you could finally have your brain just stop thinking and enjoy the feelings pulsing through your body.

 It's a bit different as a guy.  Foreplay can be amazing or just a tease.  Have you ever played in chat only to realize your not really into this person?  They are like an emotional black-hole.  you have to do all the work, they just want to be controlled.  Unless you get off on the control it's a sad situation to be in.  

I.F. seems to be full of the types that want someone else to control them, tell them what's kinky, tell them how to dress or act or behave.  They seek a dom who will dom them forever, never thinking maybe the dom isn't 100% dom and would actually like to see some initiative.  Often they end up with an emotional bully.  Who will degrade them forever.  Is that really someone you want to spend time and effort becoming subserviant to?

What your really looking for is an opposite half.  

If your a sub have you ever thought 'What a jackass this dom is, they aren't really worthy of me?'.  It's OK if you do.  The dom if they are truely a jack-ass will say 'You haven't been trained properly', or 'your a bad sub'.  They'll rarely say - "This isn't working and it's probably me, not you".

How judgemental you may think, well it's true.  Can you honestly say you haven't seen a sub or dom like the above.  If your a dom and like forming subs into your idea of a good sub, then have you asked yourself if thats the right sub for them?  Or do you just make them how you want them?

If your a sub have you ever thought, what does this dom need most, how can I give it to them?

Maybe you aren't a dom or a sub, and are just a person, and what you really want is someone else who isn't an asshole or a bitch and who accepts that you have your kinks and maybe has similar kinks.

This is way too serious a post, it's time to sleep.  Tomorrow will be a better day.