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I LOVE oral sex!
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I LOVE oral sex--giving head, sucking cock, blowjobs. Whatever you want to call it I love doing it to a guy.
To me, oral sex is the ultimate feminine subservience--you're on your knees, looking at this guy you're doing it with, and the physical pleasure is all his. He is (almost completely) in control and I know from asking many guys, it's a total turn-on.
For me there is also the mental stimulation that other kinds of sex just don't give me. If a guy gives me a choice between fucking and sucking his cock, I'll always pick sucking. I can't say what it is but doing it always stimulates me in ways nothing else does; I've even had orgasms, brought on by nothing more than mental stimulation!
I never use my hands, either, unless that's what the guy wants; to me that's a bit like cheating, and really, I like to have them tied or otherwise restrained behind my back--a further submission for me. I believe also because in learning to give head, I was never allowed to use my hands; in fact they were often tied behind me, and I had to learn to use just my mouth, and use it well.
So you're probably thinking, she likes to give, but does she like to receive? It might surprise you to hear "no". I've never liked having a guy's tongue in my pussy, which was a problem with my ex-husband, who really got off on "pleasuring" me this way. I could never make him understand I found it a huge turn-off, because it was much, much too much like he was showing ME subservience, which I didn't care for.
Understand, I grew up being taught, and wholly believing, in the dominance of males. My father was a dominating man with an oft-times narrow point of view on things. He was not a mean man--he didn't abuse me or my mother--but he could be unyielding on certain things. I grew up knowing and even admiring that, and as I got older sought out men like that for relationships, though too often I would think I found one, only to learn much later that they were, in fact, kind of wimpish. This isn't a bad thing, I've decided, but it's not a turn-on for me, either.
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Posted on : Jan 17, 2008
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Commented on Apr 4, 2008
Wonderful
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Commented on Mar 29, 2008
not an easy thing to be good at giving head, i haven't met many girls being good at it. First of all, i agree, to be good at something you have to like what you do (many girls don't). A few though were trying hard, and with a little patience got better and ended up liking it a little. Only one i met actually liked giving blowjobs, or actually liked me cumming in her mouth and swallowing.
I guess i still look forward to a good blowjob
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