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Seeking advice
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Hi there everyone,I have only been on here about a couple of months,and right after joining this site,i started dating this woman,and she is now my Girlfriend,and i am Very fond of her,and i have a lot of respect for her,only she does not know of me being on here,or being turned on by shemales,I feel really guilty coming on here sometimes,be cause,i am very devoted to her.Also everytime after i masterbate,i dont feel bisexual for a while,and then later im horny again,and feeling bisexual again,is this normal?but then again what is normal?Sometimes i wonder if im bisexual,or straight?if anyone can give some advice,I would really appreciate it. Thank you
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Posted on : Jul 28, 2012
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Commented on Mar 26, 2017
Hi. I have only just started looking at people's blogs, and of course wanted to see yours. I know your "seeking advice" post was a long time ago, but thought I'd weigh in on the thread, in case you're interested.
I can totally relate to the part about not feeling bi after masturbating. I love the thought of dressing like a girl... pretty dresses, sexy lingerie, cute outfits, bikinis... and in public! I love the thought of being teased and laughed at when my little peepee gets hard and everyone can tell how excited I am by the sissy shame and humiliation. And when I get worked up enough, and jerk off to those fantasies, or wearing panties, I am no longer interested for awhile... maybe even several days to a week or so. But eventually the urge returns and I'm horny to be queer all over again! I think it's like that with most guys...like the old joke, a sperm bank is the only bank where you LOSE interest immediately after making a deposit. I call it keeping everything in balance. I think it's part of the whole Venus/Mars thing... why right after sex, women want to savor the moment, cuddle and talk about it... and men want to make a sandwich and turn on the game. I know that's a very broad generalization, but I think it tends to be true more often than not.
Personally, I've never had an actual gay experience, but so often fantasize about experimenting with another sweet sissy gurl. Sometimes I feel the urge to purge and ignore it all... and other times (much, much more often) I realize I am not hurting anyone or myself by my fantasies and writing back and forth with other gurls who share my fantasies. SO... why not? Have fun, sugar! Wheeeeee! xox
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Commented on Oct 29, 2013
You are what you are, Coolbarron. Many men, like you and I, are bi-curious. I am like Cloudyboy. I like shemale porn, but have never met a guy and though, "Man, I'd like to do him." I would like to experiment in real life, however.
After you jack off, it is natural to lose interest in sex for a bit. Everyone is like that. For years, I would shoot my load and think, "I can't believe I just jacked off to a shemale AGAIN." And a day or two later, I would be drooling over chicks with dicks again.
Cloudyboy and SissyAli are right. It's not easy to talk about things like this, but you have a right to express your needs and desires, and she may surprise you! My wife turned out to be very willing to finger-fuck or dildo-fuck me, and she even pegged me once. She bought me a white lace thong for our anniversary!
Go ahead and find some porn you like, jack off, and enjoy!
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Commented on Apr 13, 2013
I definitely know what you mean! Love my girl but I definitely feel very Bi even though I have little experience with it. I think transexuals are amazingly hot. Often more feminine that a lot of women I know! I would so love to be able to share my deepest desires with her and be able to play together but opening up is a very scary thought because it could go very badly. Really, I just want to fuck everyone though! It is a tough place to be but you definitely are not alone, there is a lot of us here.
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Commented on Mar 6, 2013
After orgasm some feelings may get switched off for a time so nothing abmormal there.
Gay/Bi/hetero may depend upon early sexual experience. I was with boys until about 16 and then turned to girls; got married had children; became a widower; had some gfs but at my age I now only have sexual ideas about other males.
So, you are what you are and you feel what you feel. Don't worry about titles but stay safe.
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Commented on Feb 14, 2013
I'm normally hetero but with alcohol I can turn into a raging homo and sex maniac. I sucked my first cock by accident (honestly!!) and the guy came in my mouth just seconds after I knew that this was a man and not a woman. It certainly gave me the taste for sucking cock and I've done lots since, I wish I'd learnt before I turned 30!
Looking at porn I'm again mostly hetero and love pussies and ladies bottoms. Male bottoms actually turn me off, even when drunk but photos of erect cocks and cum shots invariably give me hardons. Limp dicks, hardly at all. I do love the idea of having a cock inside me, I've not had much experience at all but what I had was amazing.
I think the proper term for yourself is bicurious, you won't know for sure until you've tried what you fantasise about. I think you probably are bi. Having a threesome with your girlfriend with another male might be something she'll be willing to try. Depending on what you were to get up to might give you a close up view of another man in action. If you do try that.. make absolutely certain that you're the last to cum, otherwise you'll instantly go off the idea.
I wish you the best of luck. Don't get too old to never try!
Regards
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Commented on Aug 27, 2012
If you're enjoying TS/TV porn…than just enjoy it. Lots of straight women enjoy watching gay male porn, that doesn't make them transgendered. Now, on the other hand if you want to try the things you see in said porn…well whatever label you choose for yourself is fine (bi, straight, straightish, ect).
As for the girlfriend...if you want a LTR with her, realize that at some point you will have to reveal your interests. If you try to hide it, she'll still find out. It's probably better to be honest and upfront with her, and hope for the best. Some women are ok with that, some aren't.
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Commented on Aug 6, 2012
I think it's the porn. When I watch porn regardless off what kind, I'm thinking of sex with men. However watching gay porn is not as exciting as others although I like to watch old guys do it. I think I'm straight but would like to experiment.
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Commented on Aug 1, 2012
Hey there,
Sometimes I feel the same way -- I really want to get into sex with men, all aspects, but I don't really find myself attracted to men. Just want to have the experience of sucking cock, being used by men, having them cum on me or in me. But I don't look at guys on the street or whatever and find my head turning.
You shouldn't underestimate your girlfriend. She might be into some kinky stuff you don't even know about. Maybe she would be into sticking a finger in your ass or pegging you or who knows what? I have been surprised by girlfriends in the past -- they don't always tell you what turns them on until you bring it up. Bondage, anal, watersports -- some freaky stuff, all very sexy, all things I'm open to, but not the kind of thing that comes up over dinner on your first or second date.
You're probably pretty normal. Or maybe I'm not.
Either way, don't worry about it. Good luck
CB
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