So yeah...waiting on a sleepy head to rest a bit, chatting around and discussin the intricacy of "rough sex" versus "bdsm". In my view, i dont say no to a nipple pinch (i sometimes do that myself when somebody cant reach up that high LOL) or a spank or a boobie slap even...but it has to be DURING SEX, a part of it, not standing out on its own, like BDSM kinda is, focused more on the pain than the pleasure, and rarely mixing it...This is just my opinion, i'm not judging and ppl can "get off" however they wanna :D Kisses