Since my accident I have had limited mobility and flexibility. I am in pain often and the meds I am on have a limiting effect on my penis. I can masturbate many times a day but my mobility and the pain involved in positions make me lose my erection when we have sex. It's a brand of hell that I never could have imagined. I have fashioned all manor of other ways to give Marie orgasms. It's not the same. Nice but not the same as having a hard cock in her and filling her with cum. She needs the real thing.