I am really glad that I joined this site.  I have only been here about a week (on this account anyway), and i have had some really great conversations with people.

It has occured to me that before I spoke to people here, I had a different attitude to myself as a person, because I didn't accept that my sexual feelings were the same as all my other feelings.  For example, it is easy to 'feel' emotionally.  We can easily love, hate, like, admire, sympathise with, or not bother with people.  It is the same with politics or religion or art.  We can easily form opinions, we can freely express them... and we can have a certain 'authority' when we express them simply by believing in what we say.

With sex it is different.  I am certainly not going to lecture to anyone about the prejudice heaped upon gay and lesbian people, or those who challenge the stereotypes about gender.  I know it would be an insult for someone who knows so little, (me) to express non-existant knowledge. (mine).

What I mean is the nature of the sexuality we all live with.  Those that have been generous enough to write to me and 'open up' about their sexual lives, have all done one thing that is common amongst us all... they have made me feel less alone.  The type of 'fetish', the emotional needs... the search for commonality... it doesn't seem to matter which it is.  The act of sharing with people who will not judge you is a marvelously liberating thing.

I know I am being a bit 'gushing' because a friend on here really helped me recently, but it just seems to me that this site represents one of the true opportinities for people to talk honestly, not be judgemental or prejudicial... and really 'connect' with other human beings in a positive and (I'm going to say it) moral way.

In the meantime... I will shortly revert to the horribly selfish bitch I really am, and write about how being a sexy cow can be surprisingly rewarding! :-)

Does anyone have a crossbow? ;-)