Here's a little rant. I think a lot of women on this site will agree with me. Girls, if you agree, do add a little comment for this entry to show your support!

Just because a girl is talking to you over the internet doesn't mean that she is suddenly functioning in a manner very different from her usual self. In real life, you wouldn't walk up to a random woman and say, "Hey baby, I wanna fuck you." I am not against dirty talk or sharing fantasies. In fact, I enjoy that very much. But wouldn't you like to just talk a little bit about yourself, open up a little before you get to that? Dirty words are fun, but without context they really start to get boring. 

A woman, no matter where she is, needs to be approached with patience. You may find that tedious, but if you get it right, it is going to be worth the effort. If you really want to talk to me, would it be too much to ask that you should read what I am saying about myself in my profile and in my blog? If you can't spare a few minutes for that, why should I spend a few minutes to read or respond to your messages?

I always respond to most of the messages I get because I don't like to ignore and hurt people. Besides, I am here because I like connecting with people, but I am really not going to waste my time responding to people who don't have the patience to enjoy someone's company properly. I do have a very interesting life apart from site, apart from sex.