I continue to feel ever greater irritation and dispair at the crossdreaming/autogynephilic community. This phrase sums it up;

" There are men who dream about being women, and who express this longing through feminization fantasies and/or crossdressing."

Simply they have it the wrong way round. Rather, the feminization narrative is the singularity of the experience and the "dream" about being a woman in influenced by this. This fetish is complicated enough, it is true that something like over 90% of people do not have the tools to understand its structure, and now we face the farce of a community of perfectly normal people wrongly thinking they are gender dysphoric. Some of them like the idea of an "inner female", the others don't like the idea of that their percieved feminine identity is influenced by a fetish. My understanding of of a "fetish" being any arousing idea, and all arousing ideas are constructed, even the idea of arousal by "bodies", or "masculine" or "feminine" qualities.

I would like the "condition" to be understood as,

Feminization Fetishism (Autogynephilia or Crossdreaming), the arousal by the relation to self through social-masochistic femininity, produced by childhood emasculation trauma or intense social anxiety through childhood.